Im just curious... It seems as though things have changed since my bf and I first started dating. He doesnt call me as much at work... he doesnt make an appoint to go to sleep with me anymore, he plays pool with his friends in the basement. Maybe we are just getting more comfortable? Maybe I look to deep into things sometimes?? I would just like to hear what dif people have to say... I do love him very much though!!
2007-03-21 03:27:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have talked with him and he said his love for me hasnt changed or he wouldnt be with me....
2007-03-21 03:33:03 · update #1
This is the part of the relationship that i hate....I end up finishing with them because I dont like it..but I suppose its normal.
2007-03-27 00:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he still love you i've been with my guy for 1yr and 8 months and a whole lot has changed i live with him and hes always busy doing his thing or just doing something it makes me feel like im not appreciated but deep down i know he loves me its the look in his eyes and the way he holds me when we go to sleep and stays up just laying there till 3 in the morning just listening to me talk and tells me that he loves me and wants to get married and have a family i love him and he is sometimes busy but i know he loves me dont worry about if he loves you it just ya'll are starting to get comfortable around each other and he feels like your gonna be there for him and its ok because you understand and that your down for him no matter what
2007-03-21 11:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
there's a difference between settling down/comfort and going without having your needs met. if you feel like you are alone in this relationship or it's turned into a relationship where you aren't satisfied sexually or emotionally,etc., then you don't have to just settle. sometimes guys put on a front of who they are just long enough to trick you into staying, and then once they have you trapped, they half *** it and think, hell, she's never gunna leave I don't even have to try. if he's ignoring you and your needs and you feel you're the only one that cares, discuss with him specific things you miss or need. honey, just cause it's getting comfy doesn't mean you have to settle for just "OK" when you can be getting "friggin amazing"
2007-03-29 00:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the honeymoon phase is over.
You have fallen into a comfort zone and the phone calls and butterflies may never return.
If your boyfriend has true feelings for you remind him how special he use to make you feel and how you miss his company.
If you communicate your feelings you may find a middle ground.
This happens to most relationships, but need not be the end.
Communication is key.
2007-03-28 19:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by makeda m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As you know already, us females need to feel as if we are important and sexy enough for the one that we love...Men see it differently, to them if you guys are ok and all is well, they feel as if there is nothing wrong...Maybe just bringing up the subject of the difference between men and woman, will help help understand the needs you have as a woman..If you find this hard, try talking to him as if it was a friend of yours going through it>>> Good luck to you both, but I am sure that he is just not aware of your feelings,..How is he going to know if you do not bring awareness to the issue..
2007-03-29 08:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asked him and that is what he said, then you have to believe him. Maybe he is feeling more comfortable with you these days and what you are missing is the romantic approach he used ot have when dealing with you - in that case, you could try to talk to him about that. It could be easily fixed with both of you trying.
2007-03-29 06:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry he said he's for you never change if you two if i am just enjoy your life and don't be so blind
one more dont think so much,be honest to your relation ship and
if you love him love your self too
love him but not so deeply bcuz some day maybe you two would broke up if thats happen maybe you would think bad things k
i hope you dont broeke up
i wish you relation ship will grow
bye
2007-03-29 08:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by lowell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still loves you, just dgetting comfortable in the relationship. i have to remin myelf of thi everyday, good luck and remember men only do what u let them get away with
2007-03-29 00:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by jai1603 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what happens when ppl first start dating ,yeah it does calm down after awhile,doesn't mean he stopped l0ving u,just alot closer now,wouldn't have nothin t0 talk ab0ut after work if he called u all day at work.
2007-03-29 00:03:48 · answer #9 · answered by xo_hippie_xo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, i tend to do that, but it doesn't mean anything, if he's playing pool with his buddies. Don't worry just kinda mention it to him. Explore new ways.
2007-03-28 16:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋