ok their is this boy i fancy he goes to my youth club, and we never tlk to each other but my mate said she spoke to him and that he said he was going to ask me out, now when i got there his mate said to me oh you know its never meant to be between you two and he said in front of the boy i fancy and then the boy started smiling and he turned a bit red, then his mate said why dont you just talk to him, his mate keeps on trying to get me to talk to him and he is bothering me about it and it is only that particular boy. also this boy i fancy is shy around i think and he knows i like him but he didnt tell me to my face his mate told me that we are never meant, to be do you think i should move on or do you think the boy i fancy, fancies me back. or what does his mate want and why does his mate keep on botherig me. by the way im to shy to speak to the boy i fancy so we just avoid each other. once my mate said oh she 4 got me and he was there and he was like oh my cherelle.
2007-03-21 03:19:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
reading this made me think vicky pollard had joines answer, but yeh but no but maybe!!!!!!!
2007-03-21 03:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by gwoods1210 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a little confused but I think your mate/friend needs to but out. I'm sure she would not like it if it she was in your place and you were always there. Maybe if you tell your friend to stop getting invoved well you could actually talk to the guy you like/fancy. Seems your friend is either afraid that you will end up with the guy and maybe be out of the picture. Either way, just go up to the guy and tell it like it is. Tell hime how you feel cause this will ruin your friendship in the long run and also any chance with this guy.
2007-03-21 03:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave that stupid mate alone, he is just making things worse. when two people like each other, there is no need for a third person. you like him, he likes you, go, and talk to him. if he is still shy, talk to him again, be a bit more confident girl! and stop talking to any mates, he is speaking bullsh*t. when you finally go on a date, he will take his mate to ask him if he's kissing you right? i don't think so, don't pay attention to him, this thing is between you and him. if HE says it wasn't meant to bee, than you can cool yourself. have a little faith in yourself girl! good luck!
2007-03-21 04:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by wendy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be brave and ask the lad out who you like, just ask to have a word in private and then ask him if he wants to go to the cinema with you, if he says no then you know you gave it a try and then you can move on.
It also sounds like his mate knows he's shy and that's why he doing those things, either that or he likes you himself ?.
Anyway good luck :-)
2007-03-21 03:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by Richard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the email address of the mate you fancy and send him a friendly "hello"- that should start or end something!
2007-03-21 03:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP ASKING THE SAME QUESTION OVER AND OVER AGAIN
you're 14, there are plenty of fish in the sea, it's when you get to my age (23) that you realise boys are still confusing and you wasted a lot of your time worrying about them. I'm sure you're a lovely girl who deserves better than to be moping about over this boy at your youth club.
Go out and live life before it's too late hun
x
2007-03-21 03:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get email/phone number/myspace/msn... start talkin to him that way, it is way easier, trust me, im really shy aswell, but make sure u get to know him in the flesh or it will go wrong
2007-03-21 05:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i speck your like 14 and lets face it there are loads of boys out there unless your a minger then this might be your only hope
2007-03-21 03:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by xhehehexx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
write him a note if your shy
2007-03-21 03:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just speak to him it seems that you like him and he like's you why not give it a go.
i know i would
2007-03-21 03:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by kerryann m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋