i am a women who likes this other woman.....how do i know if she likes me back with out flat out asking her?....i cant ask her because she is my professor and that ruin things for me and her at school........she is confusing me ....she acts uncomfortable around me and very nervous as if she is expecting me to tell her i like her......she acts like she is scared to be around me and tries to avoid. me at times.... but then recently i brought her something to snack on in class and she smiled and gave me the googly eyes.....she also gave me that same look when i mentioned going out to eat with her......so i am very confused......if she doesn't like me in that way ....why does she keep giving me signs that she does......then other times she gives me signs that dont like me.....and wassup with the nervous reaction i have been getting from her recently.....someone please help me because im getting fustrated......read through this carefully and tell me what should do ...
2007-03-21 03:17:38 · 12 answers · asked by tedo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think she likes you. She is just trying to be nice to you. Anyway if you like her you can continue to have good dealings with her but don't be in a hurry. You'll find more from her as time goes by.
2007-03-21 03:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by PJA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your professor is in a difficult position. A professor dating a student is seriously frowned upon by the school administration. IF anyone found out that a teacher hooked up with a student, the prof. could find herself standing in the unemployment line.
So, it may be that she is attracted to you, but she has a lot to risk by doing anything because you are her student.
Perhaps when the time comes that you are no longer her student, things will be different. You can still keep up the flirting though, just don't make it obvious when other people are around.
2007-03-21 03:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Thrill K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all of the student / teacher relationships that have been covered in the Media lately I do not blame her for feeling awkward. Are you under age? I would assume not for the fact that you sound as if you are in college. I would try and move on with someone of your own age or peer.
The thrill of the hunt is always fun but, maybe you should move on! What is her situation...Boy Friend / Husband???
And truthfully did you ever think it's just you that makes her feel uncomfortable when you are around her? Maybe shes only nice to you cause she feels bad for you at times or, maybe even sorry for you so her natural instinct is to just smile and be nice...
Not being mean just might be a bit too awkward for both parties
2007-03-21 03:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by arenaimage 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When someone likes you, you don't feel any ambivalence, you know they like you.
On the other hand, professors should not mess with students and the other way. This is a big no sign and just an invitation for a lot of trouble. No good idea
2007-03-21 03:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Flyinghorse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me she seems as if she is interested in you , but there could be a possibility that she no t sure of her feelings as far as liking other women and another is that her job situation may not allow her to go forward with your advances.but on the other hand you really need to let her know how you feel,so there can be some understanding and some relief on your part and maybe on hers also.so don't be afraid.the sooner you tell her the better of both of you will be.
2007-03-21 03:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by chrissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be blunt, when no one else in near, just ask what is her opinion of Gay's, and see what her response is, and then I think that you will soon get the answer to your thoughts about her. Just be ready for an unexpected answer, and a change of class room relationship.
2007-03-21 03:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help! God did not create Steve for Adam or Racheal for Rebecca. Lesbianism is a demonic practice and it is a taboo where i come from. Ask God to forgive you and cleanse your body and mind. There are good men out there,pick them!
2007-03-21 03:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a tough one lady! I can only say that sometimes facial gestures don't necessarily mean what you perceive. The only real way to find out is to find an opportunity to talk to her on a one-on-one basis. If she is your teacher - she will understand.
2007-03-21 03:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by sukumenon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i think you should do is move on and look for other girls if your teacher likes you she will come wit but then again she might like you its just that she could get fired from her job for dating a student so i say move on and don't wait around.... if you feel so confused....
2007-03-21 03:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by cookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it is never a good idea to date your professor..You have a crush on her and you simply need to get over it..
2007-03-21 03:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋