I enjoy touching myself. My boyfriend thinks that I am not sexually attracted to him. WHICH IS NOT TRUE! I enjoy exploring my own body and pleasing myself, even more when he watches. I can tell that he enjoys it as much as I do sometimes. His jobs causes him to go out of town. So when he leaves I may pleasure myself. And when he comes home I tell him about my encounter. He would smile and sometimes he would get upset with me. He thinks that I am going to cheat on him because how sexual I am. I have told him often that I am a grown woman and if the thought of cheating comes across my mind he would be the first to know. Because I love and respect him enough to give him the decision if he would want to stay or go. With every fiber of my being he is the woman that satisfy me. I am finally getting everything that I need from this relationship and I would not be so selfish to just throw it away on something that is not worth it. BECAUSE I LOVE HIM AND ONLY HIM!!
2007-03-21 02:58:44 · 4 answers · asked by princess4u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Communication is the key.Since you are able to express your point of view here,you should be able to translate that to him in your own way.I am ofcourse assuming you already did since you care so much for this relationship. If he didn't grasp it the first time find another way to approach him.You don't want trust to shake away any foundation you both built.Many individuals finds it hard to communicate regarding sex or sexual issues. You should always eliminate that from the way so you can reach a new level with a secure base.
2007-03-21 03:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with that at all! I am very sexual & I enjoy pleasing myself too. Maybe u should get some toys & let him experience that with u. I'm sure if he's away out of town he wacks it every now & then so what's wrong w/u pleasing urself??? He needs to get over it & be happy that u can enjoy urself the way u do & not cheat.
2007-03-21 10:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lovely Cappy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with touching your own body. Most guys would enjoy watching. It will also give them some insight as to what turns you on and gives you pleasure.
2007-03-21 10:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, actually let him become more active in the touching part and you'll both be better off for it.
2007-03-21 10:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋