i am 24 M and me and my GF broke up a while ago. i broke up with her because she was a pathological liar . we started dating when i was in my second year college and she was senior in high school . she dodnt know anyone in the toen but she met 100s of people through me . after we got little serious i told her everything abt my past . all the hook ups and girls that i have hooked up with in the past . In indian students community girls like to keep that kinda stuff low but i told her thinking that she deserves to know . i am still good friends with all those girls and now i moved to chicago for work and she is still in charlotte . She is going around asking all those girls what i have done with them physically and confronting them and making me look like a jackass infront of my friends. i am so paranoid now cozz i dont want my own friends to hate me especially thats all i have and i have no new friends in chicago yet. i dunno what to do she is being such a B** .
2007-03-21 02:52:56 · 8 answers · asked by Mr.PGB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her to cut her shyt
2007-03-21 03:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea taht is kinda messed up! Do your friends know that she is a liar? B/c if they do, are even sure that they believed her. Dont worry about it sweetie! Im sure things will work out for! And a far as the whole not having friends thing, you sound like a pretty great guy so get out there and try to meet some people!ok if you ever just wanna chat heres my email address smilelots19@yahoo! Good luck with everything
Good Luck,
Jessie
2007-03-21 10:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by JessieRae07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well congrats on breaking up with her you did the right thing!
Her life must be so dull and boring she feels she must lie, gossip, spread your secrets and past that you trusted her with . THAT is just WRONG!
SHE NEEDS TO GET A LIFE!!!
I'm sorry to say unfortunately I don't think theres much you can do legally anyway. Sounds like she is mad and still angry at you for breaking up with her but she brought it on herself ! Unfortunately she is still doing her best to make you pay for it.
I know you care what your friends in Charlotte think but if they are truly your friends they aren't going to let all that talk and drama change their opinion and view of you as a friend.
As far as Chicago you will meet new friends and that won't be a problem.
Hope it gets better...I think it will really die out soon.
Best of luck.
2007-03-21 10:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by Intelfem7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If those people were truly your friends then you should be able to talk to them and tell them that you wanted her to know things about your past and people you had dated before her and she just took those things you confided in her about and ran with it and then i would confront her also for running her mouth about personal things you told her in the first place. Good Luck!
2007-03-21 10:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's suffering from a big case of sour grapes to me. You can't do anything about it now, so just sit back and see what happens.
2007-03-21 10:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jenni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter, Dude. Your true friends will still be there. Meanwhile, it sounds like she is bent on making herself appear to be vindictive.
Que sara, sara.
2007-03-21 10:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from her! she is mean and nasty, just start fresh and try to get new friends (easier said then done, i know) and don't contact her...
2007-03-21 09:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends know you. "they know you" so dont' worry bout it. and if you're a college graduate you should know better.
she's still on that highschool immaturity trip.
"DONT WORRY ABOUT IT"
2007-03-21 10:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋