This guy i like has a girlfriend and i dont know if i should tell him or not. Should i tell him how i fell??
2007-03-21 02:50:09 · 17 answers · asked by Bethany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, he doesn't want to know about your fall. Did you hurt yourself when you fell?
2007-03-21 02:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would need more information. I was recently in a situation like this..but they had broken up and I, due to a series of events, was kind of forced to tell this person that I was attracted to them. They never told me that they were attracted or not attracted in return. However they went back to their partner after a two month break up. I make it very, very clear that I wish them the best, and I really do like this person a lot, BUT I am hoping for this person's happiness in the relationship. I would never, ever cheat on anyone and if I had known they had gotten back together believe me I would never have said anything, but as I said, a series of events forced my revelation. You know this depends upon your goals here. If you are hoping he will leave her for you..well that is not very honorable and he certainly would not be taking his current relationship seriously if he left her for you...and then whose to say this is not a pattern of his?? Would you want a guy whose head is turned by every woman who expresses an interest in them? I wouldn't. I guess what I am thinking is that nothing good can come out of your revelation in the long run. Keep your secret crush and just move on. If he is meant to be with you, let the universe bring it to pass, don't force it through a revelation that is not necessary. Most of all wish him the best in your heart.
2007-03-21 03:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should leave it up to him. How would you feel if a girl was coming on to your boyfriend knowing that he was taken? If he likes you he would have to break up with his girlfriend and get over that relationship and then ask you out. So I would say you have at least 6 months to play with anyway. Maybe you could spend that time meeting people who are young free and single instead.
Anyway if he has never mentioned anything to you and he is seeing someone I think you can safely say 'he is just not that into you' (look up the book by the same title, it is very funny and will stop you from letting your imagination run riot)
2007-03-21 03:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by micha19702007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like the guy enough i would tell him that you do like him. maybe you can find out if there relationship has anything wrong with it. maybe later you will have a chance with him about he knows that you like him. After all after you tell someone that you like him they usually want to hang out or talk and you guys could get to know each other better. Telling him would most likely bring you alot of good outcomes. GO FOR IT!!! tell him your feelings.
2007-03-21 02:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by dangerous_angel_gurl1116 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine that he was your boyfriend and there is this girl who likes him and doesn't care about your feelings, comes and tell him how she feels. what will your reaction be like? or what will his? this could break the relation between you too, he might go for her, who knows? i want you to wait before you do anything stuppid, maybe he'll break up with this girl. wish you luck
2007-03-21 02:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by lunacat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not tell him if he has a girlfriend. If she found out then things could turn nasty and not just for you but for your boyfriend as well. If they split up then by all means tell him how you feel but until then I would just admire from afar.
2007-03-21 02:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you know what your walking into sure. your probably going ot end up with an answer of no. but personally my beliefe is honesty all the time so go for it if you realy want to.
2007-03-21 02:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by sarah t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the gal aint your frnd then y not, but if u get the idea he's realy on his galfrnd then don't try ot. explian to him how u feel, but make it clear that u aint desperate 4 him or asking him to dump his gal 4 u...tel him u was only informing him on how u feel and da rest is up 2 him....u neva knw wat wuld happen frm dere.
2007-03-21 02:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by Bilqis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it kinda depends... if there is any chance this boy would go out with you then ... maybe, but if hes happy with his girlfriend don't sabotage that...
2007-03-21 02:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What gives you the right to interject yourself into his life?
Just because you want to?
Grow up; Leave it alone.
2007-03-21 02:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋