Why does this girl I fancy keep mentioning sex when I am with her. She blushes a lot and says lots of innuendo. She giggles too! Other times she is really friendly but no giggling and is exceptionally bright. I get mixed messages from her but I think she likes me also. Why is she flirty and naughty one time then cooler and intellectual the next. She dosen't like aggressiveness so I don't want to storm in there and just ask her out. Confused!!
2007-03-21 02:46:36 · 29 answers · asked by Pete R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have to just storm in there to ask her out, you can be the total gent you sound and do it very politely, it appears this girl likes you a lot and seems to be getting a bit frustrated at the amount of time its taking you to ask her out, just ask her please but do it nicely, I am sure she will say yes so enjoy your date and good luck.
2007-03-21 02:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but she sounds like someone that I would not be interested in. Course I am a woman-she sounds silly to me. I would not have time for that foolishness.She sounds like she's trying to be mysterious-she is truly getting that message out-loud and clear- But at the same time I don't trust women like her. Sorry, I'd move on-That would probably make her tighten up and stop with the school girl act. Perhaps-or she may be immature-smart or not. She might be smart-but does she have any common sense?
2007-03-21 02:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww. That's so sweet. Just ask her out for a drinky/coffee/what have you as friends. Friends get thirsty too! If you create lots of little opportunities to be alone together maybe she will make her move in her own time. Good luck!
2007-03-21 03:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by tigerfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like that she does like you. Probably is trying to show you that she can be fun but also serious.
Best bet is when you guys are talking talk about movies. When a movie is mentioned that is playing tell her this... "Thats a movie that I want to see too. Did you want to try and go see it together this weekend?"
It will show that you are interested and want to get to know her better. It isnt aggresive so she should respond well with it.
Good luck.
2007-03-21 02:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely you must have heard of women's prerogative, being changeable. In earnest, she seems to at least like you enough to flirt. If this is the type of girl you are interested in, just ask her out. Never mind what signals she gives, you can also give her one or two of your own.
2007-03-21 02:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think asking her out is agressive by the way.
But anyway, back to the problem at hand. She seems to be nice when shes around u so yeah, i think u've got a chance there. Go for it! Good luck. :)
2007-03-21 02:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by sazzy_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking her out isn't being aggressive. It's being curious. As in, "I wonder what it'd be like if we went out." Ask her out for a walk, for coffee or to go to the bookstore. If she's interested you'll know and if she's not, you'll know.
You have nothing to lose.
2007-03-21 02:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by rangerbaldwin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is messing with you and beginng to explore her sexual prowess and maybe going through puberty...(shes feeling her girl hormones stirring inside prob)you dont say your ages...so its really hard to judge...
she is flirting and testing and all...
you dnot need to "ask her out"
just say to her.." so..on a scale from 1 to 10 how good a kisser are you?
then no matter what she says, say.."lets find out" and then KISS her! if she she does anything but run then take it from there..she may even slap you, but let that go..if she doesnt run then she likes you...just take her hand and walk for a bit and kiss her again...softly now...be gentle..
seriously, do this..
2007-03-21 02:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice name Pete! Ask her about her boyfriends and if she'd ever want one. Leave her a few days then ask her out. don't get a friend to do it for you and make sure she knows your serious and not just joking her around.
2007-03-21 02:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by ENGLAND! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really wants to flirt with you...she wants you to flirt back...of course, especially if she talks about sex. She sometimes changes her moods because she might think she is coming on to strong or something, but really you should ask her if she would like to do something with you or hangout...trust me this is what she wants!!!
2007-03-21 02:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by Shanni1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋