I am 20 and a virgin but I am very nervous about my first time when it happens...is that normal?
2007-03-21 02:44:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am nowhere near ready to sleep with my boyfriend, i was just curious. Obviously I am not a slut if I am 20 and still a virgin.
2007-03-21 02:51:46 · update #1
Its very normal.
2007-03-21 03:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Destiny R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh of course it's normal i'm a guy and my heart was beating so fast i couldn't control myself from being nervous. So thats totally normal of course and good on you for waiting. Make sure your with someone you trust and love and take it slow, I don't know what you've done but foreplay can be just as good any way, always make sure your guy spends a lot of time caressing you getting you stimulated, you can have really great orgasms without any penetration any way, so never feel pressured to do anything, the more you relax the more enjoyment you will get out of it, and remember you can always say stop at anytime if you feel uncomfortable. You are totally normal to de nervous. I haven't been with a girll for a while but the next time i do i know i'm gonna be nervous as hell. lol. good luck
2007-03-21 09:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by nightdreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is 100% normal to be nervous or scared about losing your virginity, especially if your partner is not a virgin. There is a standard of wanting to be "better" than the other partners. Just remember that with each partner the dynamic will be totally different so don't worry about trying to be "better". One more piece of advice. Make sure you lose your virginity to someone you care about, otherwise you may regret it later.
Best of luck!
2007-03-21 09:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by chica_liss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal to be nervous before your first time. You should not rush into anything unless you feel 100% sure you are emotionally ready to do it. Your first time should be with someone you love that loves you. Don't let anyone push you to do anything you are not ready to. Once you have sex you can't go and take it back so really think it through before you do.
2007-03-21 09:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only natural that you be a little nervous about your first time. So long as you're ready, you'll be fine.
2007-03-21 09:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by Jenni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its very nerve racking. Although I'm much older I remember my first time. It was awkward and tense. It may not even be enjoyable your first time. Once you find your love that you want to share yourself with, talk, kiss, get comfortable. Always wear protection!
2007-03-21 09:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by parrothed66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're quite normal and making the biggest mistake of your life..
Have you know him for over a year or two? around friends and family and seen how he treats them all?
has he ask you to marry him?
has he given you the ring yet?
have you finally made wedding plans?
will he support the baby?
will he leave afterhe finds out it ain't as good as he thought?
there are things to really think about before you give up your "P"ower sweetie?
2007-03-21 09:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is very normal that people feel nervous about any new experience in their life...
2007-03-21 09:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by Noha Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very normal
who dosen't get nervous about anything new they haven't done before.
just relax and go with the flow
2007-03-21 09:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was nervous not scared
2007-03-21 09:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by Peacen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋