ok so i i dated the girl two years ago (she was my first love, kiss, everything) and well when we broke up we didnt talk much for about 6 months then we became really really close friends again. but then a little over a year ago she started dating this one guy that she is now engaged to and well him and i didnt get along too well so we quit talking again and well i havent seen much of here in the past year but i have never really gotten over her and well now she is callin me up and sending me messages telling me she is having doubts about her and this guy and having second thoughts about me and her i would give anything for another chance with her but dont know what to do
2007-03-21 02:40:54 · 13 answers · asked by super_man_4888 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-21 02:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by smiffler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds exactly what happened to my son.
Stay clear away from her. I know that she was your 1st love and all.
But if it didn't work out the first time it wont work out the second time. She is already seeing someone. So if you get w/ her she will probably telling someone this line down the road.
I know everyone says that women don't cheat it's just the men that do. That is line of BULL S H I T. Women are just more secretive about it.
I think you should move on. If you two get together and breakup AGAIN the pain will be worst the second time.
2007-03-21 02:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is tough man
obvious she wants u and is thinking about u
but some people have the tendency are just being confused about the situation
tell her i respect ur decision, i still love u, i could wait , but my life has to go on
by this u r letting her know that u love her but u will not wait forever for her cuz someone else might scoop u up
and if she reallys want u she will go for it
thats the best advice i could give
leave it all up to her u know what i m sayin
2007-03-21 04:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id be crefull with this guy. wait till their clear. jsut be there to support her. maybe she jsut has cold feet. maybe the guy is right for her. but you know what they say about fist loves, theres a kind of gravity with first loves that tends to drag you back together whether it be in friendship or relationship at some point in life. so keep your eye out and dont give up but make sure you do whats in both of your best intrests. not in yours or hers specifically.
-i hope this helped
2007-03-21 02:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by sarah t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your ex for a reason leave it that way.Stop talking to her all you two are doing is playing mind games with eachother and that is just childish.You cannot move on until you let go of the past..If you want to be hurt then keep playing the game..
2007-03-21 02:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you two belong together, you're like those romance comedy : you're together then you split then she's with someone else so that she can forget you...but in the end you'll be together. anyway, go talk to her and see how she feels about you, tell her how you feel about her. but first see what this guy she's engaged to and if he really likes her, fight for her coz she's your girl. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-21 02:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by lunacat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit being her convenient doormat move on shes his problem now not urs and consider urself lucky it could b lots worse u could b her fiancee and she could b callin him with this story about u
2007-03-21 02:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just see if she wants to give her a second chance or not.
2007-03-21 02:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by BSUgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she dumps the guy she is with I would date her if I were you. And see what happens. Good Luck.
2007-03-21 02:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously she has feelings for you. I think you 2 need to sit down face to face and TALK!! This is your life we are talking about...do what you need to do
2007-03-21 02:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋