Hey Stephi,
If things are moving too fast we can wait till you know me a little better. He's right about you being careful. Were friends...i care about you and of course want to do all the things we've talked about...when your ready!
My cyber bf the one that I've never met before sent me this e-mail yesterday. Why would he say this? Could it because he finally noticed that he is 10 years older than me? Please help!
2007-03-21 02:38:29 · 9 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HI,
He is feeling insecured about the relationship just because he hasn't met you before.
I believe a meeting with him will solve the problem.
Thanks
2007-03-21 02:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by daniel65ng 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what's the rest of your story but I I guess the 10 years gap is a factor. I think he respects you enough and doesn't want to take things too fast, since one, you're online friends. At least he's, well, kinda matured enough to take things with a precaution. I also think he's interested in you, and taking it slowly is a way of showing his respect, something like that. Okay I'm getting redundant but that's how I see it. I guess you shouldn't be fast with your phase too, whatever you two have discussed before for him to say those things.
2007-03-21 10:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first cyber boy friends arent healthy. especially if their ten years older then you. also, if he was trying to do stuff befor that you werent ready for and finaly just realized right now, then i would drop him and lvie in the read wolrd hun. sorry to rain on your parade, but its jsut not a healthy practice.
2007-03-21 09:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by sarah t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa. a cyber bf ten yrs older? that could b a little unwise. He sounds sweet, but I can guareentee you that he either has a gf his own age or has serious problems.
2007-03-21 09:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, probably. Internet relationships are bad!
2007-03-21 09:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley_Nicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
waste of time...
quit wasting your time with cyber sex pots....
Get to know and talk with real live people in person...
meet good nice people who dont just want to get in your pants...
Go to church..
read?
Get some hobbies?
2007-03-21 09:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Gary G 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what he is saying is he do not want to scared you away
if you want to test him than wait for his next message
to see his next proposes
2007-03-21 09:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by kimht 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ahhh i am nipha
2007-03-21 09:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by GonE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhhh duh!
2007-03-21 09:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋