Its always hard to see the other person move on so quickly after the break up. It is the mixed feeling where i feel little angry and little sad. especially when the girl claims that she loved you for 2 years and now she bashes him saying that she regters ever dating him. is she doing this just to make herself feel better ? or why would someone do that ?
2007-03-21 02:32:09 · 9 answers · asked by Mr.PGB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is the way she is helping herself feel better. Move on and spend lots of time with your friends. There are plenty of fish in the sea at your age. Plenty of hot girls out there. This is a good time in your life. Now get out there and play the game. She seems like she was a pretty hard hearted person anyway.
2007-03-21 02:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just more of her true colors. Why is she bashing you with her new beau after dating you for 2 years? Seems like she is disrespecting BOTH of you.
Alas... it takes time to process things, and she jumped into another relationship without taking the time to get to the bottom of her own problems, and she'll likely make little or no emotional progress as a result.
2007-03-21 09:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to cause more damage to the heart she just broke.
it'll keep you away from her so she can move on to the next person. it's tough to deal with at first but just remember there's more girls out there and if you really care for her be happy for her.
ALSO: Kharma's a ***** so if you did something wrong in the past this is Kharma coming back. and if you didn't dont' worry she'll get hers.
-pz-
2007-03-21 09:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean and feel so bad for you! she is saying these things to make herself feel better and to see you suffer which is a cruel thing to do, I hope things look up for you soon and just ignore her, don't let you see you are hurt to give her more pleasure....Good luck! hope you feel better soon
2007-03-21 09:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those words are so sooo unfair!!! but i've got to tell you, she had done that not to make herself feel better.... she did that to get rid of you.... sorry, that's too harsh... but that's it. you on the other hand, look ahead and never look back... i know it'll be hard not looking back, but it will be just be harder for yourself if you won't STOP thinkin about her... it wouldn't get you anywhere... weigh it yourself... if all the pain is worth it? then go... but if its not? why waste your time in pain, when you can work hard to help yourself move on with life? my advise... FLY! good day....
2007-03-21 09:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by lorms 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's how she deals with her hurt. Breaking up is never easy. I know I did that after me and my bfriend broke up. It just made me feel better and less of a looser. So don't worry about it if she says that...she's just trying to cope with her feelings
2007-03-21 09:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a way of covering her true feelings. Don't get me wrong, the relationship is over, but by being nasty, she's trying to justify her own actions.
Ask her : "If you're so over this guy, then why are you always talking about him?"
2007-03-21 09:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it makes her feel better that she has someone adn is trying to bash you(i'm guessing) and i'm sure she loved you before but jsut says those things to hurt you now. i'm so sorry, it is awfull and cruel....i hope you find someone soon that deserves you, i'm kinda going thru same thing but not nearly as bad! hang in there
2007-03-21 09:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it happened to me, I tried to get laid as much as possible. It kept my mind occupied. Eventually I met someone worth dating and by then, I was over the other drama.
2007-03-21 09:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋