I love my boyfriend.....I TELL HIM ALL THE TIME.......he becomes jealous when I talk to attractive women because he knows that I have had relationships with women before. BUT HE IS THE ONLY ONE THAT HAS EVER PLEASED ME. And he knows this. I tell him all the time! How can I overcome this barrier in our relationship?
2007-03-21 02:28:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is just very insecure. He knows if he ever does anything wrong that you will leave him for a woman and it scares the **** out of him( It would scare any guy to lose his girl to girl ) If you ever leave him for another woman he will most likely have relationship problems for the rest of his life. That is a guys biggest fear losing his girlfriend to a girl. It means he isn't very much of a man. You really need to talk to him about that. Tell him your not going to leave him for a woman and that should help some but, he is always going to think that you will leave him for a girl.
2007-03-21 02:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie's Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are offended or jealous of former relationships. Your boyfriend has issues with you being with other women. You only mention his issue with women not former boyfriends. I would say the issue is more a question of if he can accept your bisexuality. Time and you being faithful is the only thing that can overcome the barrier.
2007-03-21 02:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by MI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know it makes him jealous, then why do you do it? The way you overcome the barrier is to stop setting the barrier up by talking about your lesbian side..
2007-03-21 02:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by joey k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you asked the question earlier regarding you & women.
well now that you don told the rest of the story i dont' blame your bf for getting jealous and not acting the same.
but at the same time if it was me, i'd help you get that girl for more fun at home :P
2007-03-21 02:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not your barrier to overcome, it's his. if he can't handle your past, he's going to have a wonderful time trying to have a future.
2007-03-21 02:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be hard for you to see him chatting up his old girlfriend, yes it's him feeling insecure, and a little left out cause he isn't a woman and that is what you dated before
2007-03-21 02:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've talked to him and he still has issues. Most likely he's NEVER going to fully get over it.
2007-03-21 02:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows he can never love as well as a woman.
2007-03-21 02:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont tell him anything-most men are insecure-they KNOW we are better lovers
2007-03-21 02:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt trust u thats why the jealousy live with it or move on
2007-03-21 02:33:13 · answer #10 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋