I have two boyfriends, Billy and Juan. Juan is soooo cute but my father hates him but I like him and he is in a gang but someone told me that if he is in a gang then that means he will be very loyal to me. Billy is not as cute and he gets straight A's and my father likes him and Billy said I was really hot. I do not want to dump either of them because I like them both. I am so confused. What should I do?
2007-03-21 01:57:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
ya the first choice should always be the 'gang member' in situations like this...shesh~
2007-03-21 02:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by kickmeloose 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you just ask a question similar to this?:????
I thought Billy was your new boyfriend?
You should never 2 time. They will find out your dating both & dump you. If Juan is loyal! Well not to be mean but your not! So why would he want someone he can not trust?????
2007-03-21 09:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by Krissy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can have both. Although the gang life style is quite apealing. It sound like you live in S. California. Are you in El Monte or Baldwin Park? Gangs are so cool because their main goal is to see how young they can be when they die. Why not get Billy to join the gang and forget about school. Why not be a girlfriend to the whole gang and then you can have a lot of boyfriends?
2007-03-21 09:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are that fickle and dating 2 men at once and they don't know about each other then let the straight A guy go so he can be with a girl he deserves. You must be honest with yourself and go with who ever your heart really desires and not just lusts after. If this is neither one set both free and do some soul searching. Learn about your own needs and wants first before dating again. You need to know what you want before you involve more than one man at a time in your life. You are only playing with other men's hears and you will probably end up pregnant and not know who the father is or die of aids.
2007-03-21 09:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....are you really this self-destructive?
do you really need a guy to tell you that "you're hot?"
are you really going to depend on a gang member for loyalty?
are you REALLY going to let the fact that the best thing someone could do in their life is joining a GANG be a POSITIVE indicator of something for you? seriously? holy sh!t!!!! :) listen: with respect, you need to sort your sh!t out a bit more before you get in with any "man". (notice the quotation marks)
i'm probably feeding a troll here, but i have to comment. you sound really, really young and definitely not sure enough of yourself..... or anything, for that matter, ......to be in a relationship. if i were daddy, i'd pack up the family and move as far away from what seems to be influencing you as possible. (denmark sounds good at this point!) :)
listen: you sound like a potentially-strong "future" woman, but you have to assess things a bit better. it seems like you're going to be letting men decide whether or not you're valuable for a long time. one guy's cute, the other says you're hot. i think you should keep your head straight and not let either of these things influence you as much as you are.
it honestly sounds like you're still very much a little girl in a woman's body and you should value the beauty of that body a bit more by waiting for someone who'll appreciate you as a person. like someone said up there, "it's the 21st century." that DOESN'T MEAN you should 2-time anyone like that person suggested; it SHOULD mean that you have more say and personal worth in your relationships than EVER before. live up to them...and stop letting one tennage boy with a h@rd-on or another be in charge of how you see yourself.
good luck.....take dad's advice a bit more seriously...you'd be surprised how much parents and kids have in common some day. Protect yourself from anything that will diminish how special you are. seriously. that sounds like some 'after-school special' bullsh!t, but it's true.
peace,
g
2007-03-21 09:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by blue-in-groove 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for billy. he can provide you with a stable family in the future. Juan is in a gang and that shows he's rebelious. how can you be sure that he won't do anything unfaithful to you since he obviously has no regard for law and order.
2007-03-21 09:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by jytopy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Juan first
then Billy
=]
2007-03-21 09:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kaley D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take billy(because he will treat you better and have more time for you than a guy in a gang would.). or dump them both..first of all, you shouldnt have 2 boyfriends(which tells me you cant make ur mind up). its very important for your parents to like a guy that ur dating or w/e. they can trust you better with the straight A's guy( if you choose the guy in the gang, they will never trust you!). hope that helps...
2007-03-21 09:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Vallen [TSL] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gang member or a straight A student? Tough choice
2007-03-21 09:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by Niecy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would stick with the gang member.for sure you know he aint a whimp.i love bad boys.billy is probably a whimp.you want someone that will protect you if some dude tries to mess with you.and plus gang members know all about respect.stick with don jaun!get rid of Billy before Jaun gets rid of him for you!
2007-03-21 09:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by Itsjustme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave them both, stop being a slut and do it right from the begining. If you don't tell one about the other you're building a relationship on lies and that is NEVER a good thing. If you tell the one u choose about the other, the outcome is not likely to be a good one. Just leave them both to avoid any drama, and find someone else.
2007-03-21 09:06:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋