I liked 2 guys but only one of them made a move to ask me out. Now he is my current boyfriend. Well this relationship is new and the other guy who likes me wont speak to me. I mean I dont talk about my boyfriend much around him because I know he likes me but hes been acting very mean towards me lately. I dont want to sound rude but he had a chance and didnt ask me out and now I am with someone I am happy with. Have I basically lost this guy as my friend?
2007-03-21 01:53:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha wow...how am i a w h o r e...I am dating ONE of them.
2007-03-21 02:00:00 · update #1
no he is just frustrated because he lost to another guy...i bet he didnt know about him so it was more of a shock to him when u 2 got hooked up and now he is just angry he didnt take his chance...give it time ull be friends again
2007-03-21 01:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL absolutley yes he is GONE!!!! However, you said you did like him along with your boyfriend. So the only way he can be in the picture is if you still like him. Often times the shy guy who is afriad to say something is the one who will take care of you the most. If you can live without him leave him be, if you miss having him around have an upfront convesation with him cause maybe he is the man for you.
2007-03-21 02:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by wutzcrackinb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most likely he won't be your "friend" anymore, because the only motive for him to being your friend was only based upon boy/gril relationship and since you've taken another guy, I guess he'll be on the hunt for another girl as his mate. If a guys likes you, but you flirt and dates another, it would really piss him off, that's what I would think.
2007-03-21 01:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just talk to him about it. Tell him you would love to maintain the friendship.
On the flip, he may not be able to do that as it may be hard for him seeing you with someone else.
It happens. I personally wasn't able to keep up a friendship with someone I cared deeply for who began seeing someone new.
2007-03-21 01:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
you can't keep both of them. the moment you accepted one of the guys proposal, you gave him the right to be more than just your pal so the other guy cannot be at the same level with him.
Sweetheart, you can't keep both guys. you must loose one inorder to keep the other. You chose which one you want to keep and which one you want to loose.
2007-03-21 03:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus ignore him, he is childish and why is he not happy for his friend. Just cut him out of your life if he cant get to terms with reality. This issue is not even worth discussing with him coz there is no turnaround. or try to hook him to one of your friends
2007-03-21 02:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Stargate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. he is just upset that he didnt step up 1st.. he will get over it, especially if u 2 were really close before. just give him some time and he will be ok
2007-03-21 01:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~Christina~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it - just cool it and give things time to develop.
2007-03-21 02:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but you should talk to the other guy b/c you shouldnt lose friends over a guy.
2007-03-21 01:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...hes just mad right now cuz he waited to long to ask you out and now ur taken...dont worry about it...just give him some time and everythin will be ok
2007-03-21 01:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋