I'm 17 years old. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months but I know I love him. He just got out of a serious relationship and he loved that girl and told her so. But she told him first. I know that he likes me a lot and I really don't want to force him to say it. But how can I know if this is real if he's not giving me anything to work with. I asked him what significance I had in his life. He said he didn't know. I don't want to leave him. What do I do?
2007-03-21 01:44:23 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play hard to get. Don't put yourself out there for someone that doesn't appreciate how you feel about them. Or just doesn't know what place you have in his life. Be a friend to him instead of a girlfriend. Eventually, if it's meant to be, he'll come around and realize what feelings he has for you. If there's any. And then again, he just may need time to get over the last relationship. But that shouldn't be any reason for it to disturb ya'll relationship. You're also young. Just have fun, it's what you're supposed to do at your age.
2007-03-21 01:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by J.A. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're 17, you chill out. He may like you, but wants to take things much slower than you obviously do. Do you enjoy spending time with him? Do you guys get along? I'm assuming you do, since you say you've been dating for 7 months now. But you guys are still in high school, you've got years and years ahead of you to find the "right guy." Finish your education, get out of school, and start on a career before worrying so much about a relationship being "real." It's real enough for you at your stage in life.
2007-03-21 08:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably really likes you but love isn't something you play with, you have to really know and it sounds like he is being mature about it b/c alot of people just say it not really knowing. Give him some time and don't pressure him. He will say it when he is ready and knows for sure!! Good Luck.
Your lucky, Now when he says it you will know he really means it.
2007-03-21 08:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Casey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are moving too fast for him, back off alittle and see what develops. You don't want him to tell you he loves you just because you told him do you, he may not feel that for you just yet and he is being very cautious right now.
2007-03-21 08:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush him. Give him some time to think about it. Im sure he would say he loves you if he wasnt pressured to do it.
2007-03-21 08:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think he's just shy to you, other boys, are still shy to the girl even though they are now on a relationship, so just understand him,.!
he'll get over it.!
if he doesn't tell you. after your married he's a coward. lol
2007-03-21 08:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by igel manalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill. Do something special for him. I don't know, like impressing him for no reason. You'll see if that means something to him. If not...he still hasn't forgot his ex.
2007-03-21 08:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by teen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him. He's afraid of falling in love with you. Put up with it as long as you are happy with him.
It's not complicated.
2007-03-21 08:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't run behind him, he does not love you
2007-03-21 08:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by priya k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time gal....don't get so hasty bout thins...in his right time he'll say that to u...
2007-03-21 08:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by mona s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋