my girlfriend is making me unsure if we will get along when we get married. We are planning to get married this summer but her attitude kinda makes me want to bac off. She expects me to say i'm sorry when i make her upset but she does not do the same thing to me. When we are in the house she does want to have conversation but we go out then she wants to be all over me. She will start a conversation with me and when i join she will be like i don't feel like talking, only wants to have conversation when she wants to but not when i have something to say to her. i come home from work and she will already be sleeping by 10:00pm and the only word she will say is how was work and that is it till she wakes me up in the morning to say bye i'm off to school or work. i told her several times that and pointed it out to her and she still not changing. i do not have friends who are females and all i wanted is to make her my best friend. What should i do?. i love her so much and is killing me.
2007-03-21 00:58:33 · 7 answers · asked by killuminati 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you love her but you don't seem to like her. I think you need to discuss whether she wants to get married or not. You seem to be looking for different things.
2007-03-21 01:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friend of mine had doubts and postponed their wedding for another year. I would do the same in your situation. If you are not happy before you are married and you cannot work the problems out then its a long ride. Oh they got married last year and have a kid and are happy so the waiting paid off.
Marriage is a can of shxt. The can looks great but theirs lots of well you know what inside of it and you need to be ready for this its not all your way and you have to be preparted to be wrong even when you know you are right at times.. Its work but as long as you have more ups then down then its ok
2007-03-21 01:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by gingermano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to sit down and have a serious talk. Plan when you're gonna do it. Not a time when you've just got home from work and you're tired. Ask her to let you say your piece, without being interrupted,let her know how you feel and give her a chance to have her say without interruption too. Do this before you commit your entire life to this girl. You need to work out whether or not this relationship is worth fighting for or whether to call it off.
2007-03-21 01:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jenni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before the two of you do anything, you should go to marriage counseling first. It doesn't mean your relationship is in trouble, many couples do it before they get married so they both can learn how to deal with each other the correct way. And if you're having a traditional wedding, i.e., in a church, most require you to have some sort of pre-marital counseling anyway. Do yourself a favor.
2007-03-21 01:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by mixedup 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both seem to be looking for different things, it sounds to me as though she is getting cold feet and to be honest you sound the same way, why don't you sit her down and make her discuss this situation with you after all a relationship takes 2 people and yours sounds all one sided
2007-03-21 01:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. u love her very much know, then u speak to her what she thinks about this, and u also say to her how much u r hurt by her actions.
2007-03-21 01:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-21 01:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋