I have been seeing this guy for a couple weeks. We are both 20. He seems great and very interested. I am a virgin and dont think he is. He has yet to pressure me at all. One of my friends told me to sleep with him bc guys like that. However every relationship she has had has failed quickly. I dont call him much because I dont want to seem overly eagar and it has kepy him interested. My reasons for not wanting to sleep with him right away are obviously I am a virgin, and I want to make sure he doesnt want just sex. Do I listen to myself or my friend?
2007-03-21 00:54:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absoloutley not! It is atrocious advise.....do what you are completly comfortable with. you do not need to resort to extremes just so you cater to a guy! Maybe you dont need to completley ignore him but as young adults I think youre within your rights to lay things down. i mean you dont have to start confessing your virginity but yknow do multiple dates and talk about alot of things. Get your evaluation of how you think things are and go from there. You are an automonous person; by all means compromise but dont force yourself into something you don't think you'r ready for and most of all have some fun! It dosent need to be some sexual pressure cooker lol!
2007-03-21 01:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is bad advice cuz if ur friends relationship's end so fast is because she sleep's wit them and that is all they wonted from her. Your current relationship can really go some where he sounds like a nice guy that u can be wit and that can understand u so don't go off and sleepy wit him cuz u might lose ur relationship's and remember every guy does not run on sex some like to take girls out and show them a good time. And ur still a virgin at that age that is a great thing to have don't just throw it all away now wait a little more till u get married the guy your going out wit now might be the one good luck on your decision. $Holla$
2007-03-21 07:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself ... don't ever sleep with a guy because they like that or to keep a guy. honestly it doesn't matter. a good guy will just let happen on its own time and when you are fully ready. since you might be a bit confused i would tell you to just wait. You don't want your first time to mean nothing. even if things don't work out at least it can be a good memory/experience.
2007-03-21 08:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just have sex with this boy till you're ready. Your friend is quite frankly talking out of her a**, don't listen to her. This guy isn't pestering you, go at your own pace any only do what feels right for you.
2007-03-21 07:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jenni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lynn, always listen to yourself. You are your best adviser!
Don't ever do anything just because someone says its the right thing to do. No one lives your live but you. Don't want to have sex? Don't do it and don't let anyone push you to do it. One day will come, when you won't have any doubt....
2007-03-21 08:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush if his worth it wait until its right as u're first time is bad enough with out doing for the wrong reasons. Just have fun and it will come naturally
2007-03-21 08:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself. You don't have to give it away to keep a relationship going. It should happen at the right moment not at some desparate moment to try and impress him. Your girlfriend is an idiot.
2007-03-21 07:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself. Only you know how you feel, it really is as basic as that. Good luck
2007-03-21 07:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself, no knows you better then you. Dont do it unless you are ready.
2007-03-21 08:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right you'll know it. Wait til you're sure he's the one.
2007-03-21 07:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋