im 16 and im really lonely cuz i dont have a boyfriend, there are 2 guys i really like but neither seem interested. i want a boyfriend that i love and loves me back cuz i havent had good relationships in the past but i dont want to get desprate... help plz!
2007-03-21 00:52:41 · 5 answers · asked by wishuponastar15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wish I could give you a logical reason for what has happened to you—but to be honest, I can't. Life isn't always fair, nor is it always the way we wish it were.
But I can tell you this: God knows what you're going through, and He understands your disappointment and hurt. Even when we don't understand why God allows bad things to happen to us, we still can know that He is with us and cares for us. After all, He suffered a hurt far greater than you and I will ever go through when His only Son was rejected and put to death for our sins. The Bible's words are true: "The Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth" (Psalm 145:18).
This is why I urge you to turn to Christ and bring your burdens to Him. The Bible says, "Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you" (Psalm 55:22). God loves you; He loves you so much that Christ was willing to go to the cross for you. Why not turn to Him and ask Him to come into your life today?
From what you say in your letter, I suspect you have sought happiness mainly through your relationships. That isn't necessarily wrong; they can be a gift from God. But we have the greatest relationship of all when we accept Christ, for we enter into a personal relationship with God. Commit your life and your future into His hands today.
2007-03-21 01:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing is calm down and do not be in such a hurry........you may be hurting yourself by being in such a rush...you are young yet and the right guy will come along..and if you rush into anything now you will probably go through many mistaken relationships and you could get hurt..do not be in such a hurry to grow up and have a relationship with someone.......it will come in time and it may not be so nice all the time either...with boyfriends comes the issue of trust, then sooner or later you are going to have to make decisions about your relationship that i think 16 is really to early for.....get your mind on your school work or just making friends........be young while you can and do the best to make something and work on something to help yourself............
2007-03-21 00:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 16 live in the ATL Georgia what u how u doing
2007-03-21 00:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 16 don't get in a hurry you will find the right person when you least expect it.
2007-03-21 00:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some young ladys bloom late in life, dont give you, one day you going to turn into a lover flower.....HUGS
2007-03-21 00:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋