I have a secret crush, I dont know what to do. What sould i do?

Question

Its because there is some boy at school that i like. I dont talk to him or anything. I dont even try to talk to him.

Answer 1

From past experience a crush can never lead into anything until you get to know the person. The funny thing is though, once you get to know him, you may not like him at all.
Just remember he is just like any other guy, strike up a conversation, and see if you have anything in common.

Answer 2

if u really want 2 get 2 knw him ull have 2 try a conversation.if hes popular or around friends he'll probably show off.try and tlk 2 him alone.if u can't tlk 2 him try and get a friend 2 ask him 4 his e-mail address or mobile noumer so that u can txt him ur feelings.ask him if he wants 2 go 2 the cinema with u some time.don't be afraid of what he might react,but at least u've been positive about urself.that proves that u have got courage and confidence.we have all been there so don't feel alone,coz ur not

Answer 3

Ask yourself this... Do you really think it will happen, I mean are you a geek he popular or are you in the same sort of groups... Guys can be weird acting all not interesting when they would cut their right arm off for a piece of action.. Can you meet up with mutual friends or find out if he is good at anything such as downloading tunes to phones so you can ask him to get you a tune. You could go all out and ask him out either direclty or indirectly but I find the getting to know part the best as the other option is 50/50

Answer 4

Ok talking to him...step one. If you are really shy and afraid of rejection (this was me at your age) find out what he is interested in. I liked this boy, when I was in school, he was a drummer (swoon!) so I started wearing t-shirts with drummers from popular bands on them. He was into skate boarding soooo I just "happened" to be in the parking lot roller skating one afternoon! Worked for me! He asked me to the prom! It also helps to join a club he is in. You almost have to talk! At least to the group or you could get paired to work together! You just have to make that first connection, let him see how fabulous you truly are! Good Luck!

Answer 5

U shd try and talk to him. Find out what r his interests does he play any sport , or some musical grp, or theater whatever it may be then u cld part of that grp And that way u will know him better and c for urself whether he is worth ur crush

Answer 6

There is a crush thta I liked and i also didn't talk to her. My friend secretly told her that i liked her without my permission..he later told me he told her so I just pretended to not know that he told her and started talking to her. Now she doesn't suspect of me liking her cause I talk to her And other girls too. But if the "guy" you like talks to you or says hi before you say something you might have made a new friend..or boyfriend?

Answer 7

A journey starts with a single step. The single step in this case, is to try to talk to him. Start off slowly, and see how he responds. Introduce yourself with a friendly smile. If he feels the same way, he will reciprocate. That is how friendships begin.

Remember that in any case, you have nothing to lose, but a lot to gain..

Answer 8

Well the only option is to gather ourage and try to get closer to him, maybe you can find if you got a class toguether or a friend in common, maybe a hobbie you share? thats a very good way to start a conversation and to start a relationship.

Answer 9

You have to try at least a little otherwise you will be in the same position many years later.....take the opportunity now before he is taken....

Answer 10

the first thing you need to do is to introduce urself to him when u see him in the hallways or in lunch, if he doesnt know you already. then begin to hang out with him whenever you 2 are comfortable around each other. then come out and ask him if he is seeing anybody at the moment and if not, then ask him if he wants to go out with you. good luck......