I found out he likes me very much by my friend and the way he treats me but he seems keep quiet and don't think to expressed out his feeling towards me..
My friend asked him how he feel bout me? He said "I want to be with her but I'm headache with my busy work all the time.. I also don't know whether she likes me or not.."
So should I give him time & wait for his first move? Or should I make the first move now? But I afraid that he'll reject me cause of my annoying.. If I don't confessed, I afraid he would go for other gals in the future.. Or should I give him some hints to let him know bout my feeling? If so, how's the best way to give him hints?
Guys, what should I do? Please help me to solve this problem.. I need your advices.. Thanks & I'll appreciate it!! ('',)
2007-03-21 00:30:45 · 11 answers · asked by Confused!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's shy and nervous, make the first move and ask him out.
2007-03-21 00:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by ski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through nearly the exact same thing, and i know how you feel! lol
I am struggeling to decide whether i should make the first move too, as i don't want to scare him off. But in your case i think you may as well tell him how you feel, as he did say "I want to be with her"
I find that giving compliments and subtle hints is helpful for the other person to know how you feel. But at the same time it may not speed up the process of him making a move.
Guys are extremely confusing aren't they? :P
2007-03-21 08:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From one girl to another-if he has told your friend he likes you
and, you like him to, put it out there! If it were me I would send him flowers! Guys never get flowers and alot of them really appreciate it! Don't make the card too mushy or anything just... thought you could use some sunshine or, know you have been really busy but, I was thinking of you. Oh and don't go for too romantic like no roses just a small tasteful bouquet too big or too expensive will look desperate.
Good Luck!
2007-03-21 07:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by sistermarybella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make the first move and see where it goes from there. maybe ask him to be honest and real with you and see what he says. tell him that you want to go out but tell him that when he has time for a date since he is busy working.. to call you and you all could arrange a date
2007-03-21 07:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by mikiegirl04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you like him and he has told your friend that he likes you so one of you needs to make a move!!!!! He sounds as though he may be a bit shy, so why don't you suggest a date, maybe dinner or a movie, nothing extravagent tho and take things from there.
2007-03-21 07:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fink u shud giv him time...as u told us he seems to be very busy with his work..i believe that he will himself pour out his feelings to u when he will feel its the right time....but on the other hand u shud also show him that u care for him n what r ur feelings towards him..u may then take the help of a friend to do this task....
wish u success 4 ur love..........
2007-03-21 07:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i think you should express your feelings dont wait for the sooner the better dont worry abt being rejected i dont think he'll
2007-03-21 07:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well make your first move,and dont be afraid of anything that
happens life is full surprises some are good and some are bad so be preapared for everything so make your first move.
2007-03-21 07:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by moh_2276 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. better u make the first move, something is better than nothing.
2007-03-21 07:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let HIM make the first move and do not be so easy.................and don't ask guys..lol...some will say different....well the mature ones will say what I did...
2007-03-21 07:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋