beenseeing this guy a year on valentines day we txt eachother but he didnt come over to see me nor did he get me a card, i sat at home upset all nite! i know im not his gf but even if u like sum1 u wana show them rite?
2007-03-21 00:24:53 · 19 answers · asked by parent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cos wen we met he had just come out a 2yr relationship, he was engaged 2 her, ive been seeing him a year and i didnt see him on valentines day and still havent met his parents
2007-03-21 00:30:19 · update #1
i love him and he knows it. he aint said it bk though
2007-03-21 00:31:56 · update #2
he aint seeing any1 else, i no that 4 a fact, valentines nite he was at home cos we spoke on the fone
2007-03-21 00:33:23 · update #3
well as soon as he sees my ex outside my house, cos my bloke drove pasy, i got a txt saying just see ur ex outside ya house and i replied yeah sent my son out to pick up school shoes, and that i never see him, cos we hate eachother,, then a few days later he txt me saying why did u say u didnt go out n see ur ex wen u did? i never so i dont no why he saying things like that
2007-03-21 00:39:05 · update #4
i didnt mention valentines cos didnt wana make him feel obliged to do anything, cos im not like that, seeing him would of been all i want, he dont believe in bd cards xmas
2007-03-21 00:43:00 · update #5
Am I reading this right...you have been together a year and you're not his girlfriend??
2007-03-21 00:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Cat burgler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just aren't really into Valentine's Day because it's so commercial... If you guys have been going out for a year, I gotta ask - how was Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years?? Also, how does he usually show his affection? I would only get upset if he's always leaving you alone during major holidays or if he NEVER shows any affection towards you... Otherwise, if he's generally a good boyfriend and he texted you, then I wouldn't take it too personally.
If you're still really really upset (which I guess you must be, cuz it's already been a month) then surprise *him* one night with some sexy lingerie, and tell him, "I was hoping to surprise you with this on Valentine's Day, but you didn't come over... So here it is now..." I promise you he'll come over next year.
2007-03-21 00:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been seeing one another for 1 year and he didn't get you a card, it is time to move on girl.
He is using you at his convenience with no regard for your feelings.
Has he even one ounce of romance in him?
He should have visited you, brought a card and maybe even a marshmallow heart.
It would have been better than nothing.
My oh my what little games is this guy playing. He thinks cause he got out of a 2 yr relationship he doesn't have to show any emotion toward you!!!!!!!.... cra* to that.
You are so worth something better than him. He obviously is wallowing in self pity and denial...
I think your babysitting duty is over. Now!!!
Time to find someone who is ready to take you seriously and give you the things a partner should.
I believe if you stay with this man, you will be deeply disappointed repeatedly, always waiting for him to make a move and believe me he won't. he is so engrossed in poor me syndrome he doesn't have time to think about you.
You should not keep your life on hold for anyone.
You make the choices and get your life back on track again without this dude or should I say dud.........
2007-03-21 00:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking the wrong people!!
You say you have been seeing him for a year but not his girlfriend??? and he got you nothing for valentines!!!! Take the hint!
What did you get him for valentines? Does he know how you feel? If you both don't do anything then you both end up sitting indoors on valentines and thats stupid. Either tell him how you feel or move on.
Either way, good luck
2007-03-21 00:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by michelle a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's treatin u this way u shouldn't waste ur time on him.i dont mean to be harsh,but women deserve better.he should be proud of u and show u off 2 his friends.u obviously love him but maybe he doent want 2 get 2 close coz he mite think that he's gonna get hurt again.maybe he's not into romance but that doesn't mean that he dont like u,he probably loves u so much he doesnt want to do the wrong thing and hes prob scared that he will lose u as a gf or even a bezzie mate.
2007-03-21 00:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by xxashtonxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you invite him over? Did you send him a card? Did you even discuss it?
No?
Only yourself to blame then - people aren't mind readers. If you want something from him then ftreat him like any other friend and ask. Do you sit there feeling sorry for yourself because a friend doesn't turn up for dinner on the day you hoped she would? No you get on the phone and invite her. Start giving that boy the respect he deserves as a freind and stop carping on otherwise he never will be your boyfriend!
2007-03-21 00:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going out with my boyfriend for a year and a half and i had to fight tooth and nail to get a valentines card this year of him. Wouldn't take too much offense over it. Some fellas are just insensitive but i would find out where you stand with him and lay down the law next year
2007-03-21 00:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by kit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it already! Valentine's Day is a fake holiday created by Hallmark for the purpose of selling more cards. And here it is a month later, and you're still sulking? Tell you what, if that is your biggest problem in life, you're doing pretty darn good.
2007-03-21 00:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it, if he's not your boyfriend, he has no obligation whatsoever to buy you a gift, nor come and spend the day with you. Also, consider this, you sat around upset all night, while he was somewhere else spending the day, maybe with somebody else. Maybe you should reconsider your feelings for this guy, because, quite possibly, they aren't mutual.
2007-03-21 00:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by lipgloss_black85@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad to say but I think the reason he did not give you a Valentine's card is this.........he doesn't feel the same way you do about him and doesn't want you to read more into it than there is.After a year and your'e not his girlfriend makes me think you are being strung along.Drop the loser before you get hurt worse.
2007-03-21 01:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by honeypot0214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, is he your boyfriend or not? Are you just friends and he has a girlfriend? If he did not call, come by or get you a card, he either has no idea you care about him that way or he is taken. You need to figure this out in your head first.
2007-03-21 00:30:08 · answer #11 · answered by stormzsecret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋