my bf wont come near me and i have 2 guys who want me i have kissed one of them the other night but do i go all the way and risk losing what i have or do i not and stay unhappy? im so confused i need help!
2007-03-21 00:09:48 · 63 answers · asked by x_wiggy_x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and mite i just add he cheated on me he didnt come home the other nite n lied bout where he was n i found out it was an exes that he stayed at! he swears nuttin happened but i dont believe him!
2007-03-21 01:01:40 · update #1
break up with him if you really can't work it out , better to have new relationship without complications .
2007-03-21 00:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No don't ever cheat it hurts and you would be upset if he did it to you.
If you are unhappy what are you risking by loosing him by talking. Or taking a break to see how it goes with either of these other guys
If you have already kissed somebody else maybe the commitment to your boyfriend is not really there. Don't go cheating and create more issues.
Cut your ties before you move onto another guy..
Also don't use the fact that your boyfriend wont come near you as an excuse for wanting to cheat. Thats rubbish your only lying to yourself there.
Speak to him or break up with him be honest with yourself.
get it sorted the right way. Don't take the easy route and cheat so he breaks up with you.
2007-03-21 00:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by sarah090182woodhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as cheating is concerned, you've done it already. But what do you mean ur bf wont come near you?? Did he already find out? If so, you might have already lost him. You need to evaluate your relationship, what are the benefits of being with this person? Do you see yourself marrying this person? You need to picture yourself with him in the future. Would he be a good care taker? A father? Someone that will take care of you and love you till you die? If so, don't cheat. The whole reason of having a boyfriend, is to find out who you're going to get married to. You will have guys going after you even after you get married. It's apart of being a girl. I used to have 15 boys going, it's too stressful, and I'm sure they don't appreciate the competition. Boys are possessive like that. I'm sure they wouldn't want to share you with anyone. The easiest way I think is to make a list of all the good qualities, and bad qualities. See how many add up, think really hard. What makes you love this person? and what do you despise about him? I hope your happy with whatever you choose, and good luck! ^^
~OffWhite~
2007-03-21 00:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by OffWhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break up with the guy. You're not married, so you're not risking all that much. Besides, if he's not paying you any attention, it means he's probably not into you anymore, or cheating on you himself. Better end it before it's too late, and enjoy yourself. Everyone's gotta feel special sometimes. Just do it the right way, cheating is wrong.
2007-03-21 00:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by mixedup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to look at your realtionship a little harder? why wont your bf come near you? maybe he thinks your alrady cheating? and if you arent happy maybe you should tell your boyfriend and leave him so your free to do what you want and you dont hurt him in the progress! cheating is for people that are stuck in a rut or are low lifes! dont reduce yourself to that!
speak to your man and put the other men to one side of your mind! find out where you stand with your man and how you feel about him deal with that then youll know what to do with the other men!
cheating on him will mean you will hurt him and effect his future realtionships etc dont become the ex that broke his heart!
2007-03-21 00:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you want to be with your bf or you don't. It is as simple as that, cheating is not an option and should never be. if you are thinking this way then I wouldn't hold out much hope for your relationship in the long run so just finish it and then you will be free to explore your options with these other guys without feeling guilty.
2007-03-21 00:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT CHEAT! actually you already have by kissing the one guy. But cheating just makes you low and pathetic be the bigger person and just break up with your boyfriend. Tell him you are unhappy and why you feel that way.
2007-03-21 00:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u cant see 2 guys or even u can't feel the same thing for the two of them at the same time if ur unhappy with ur bf tell him then leave but don't cheat on him believe me it hurts
2007-03-21 00:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by dodo r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer within yourself. If you cheat on your BF you also cheat on yourself. If things are not what you want them to be in your current relationship, you should start over. Just do it the right way. Don't be a low life cheater.
2007-03-21 00:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because if ur current bf iz making u unhappy then u should be wit a guy that can make u happy and that wont's to be around u ur bf should at least wont to see so i say yes but break up with ur other bf first before any starts up between the guys. $Holla$
2007-03-21 00:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're not happy with your boyfriend then the best and fairest thing to do is try to sort it out if you both want to, or leave him. Think about how you felt when he cheated on you, do you really want to hurt him? I hope you decide whats best for you, life is too short to live it unhappy!
2007-03-21 01:53:22 · answer #11 · answered by lasticlegs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋