My ex and I got to know each other as friends first through work and there was a special connection. After 2 mths, we got together but 3 months on he split up with me! He said it was due to the fact he had to move away for 6 months(which may still happen)! Weve been apart for 2 mths now and the other day, he confesses that he was on a break with his ex (still seeing her once a week) whilst with me! He knew he didnt love her but he thought the only reason he was feeling so much for me was because I was new and everything was in the honeymoon period! So he thought he should give her another go as shes never done anything wrong and he felt like he owed it to her to try and love her! NOW, hes tells me that for the past 2 mths Im all he thinks about and the only girl hes ever seen a future with! He confessed hes in love with me (never said before)!The messed up thing is for the first time Im sure Im in love with a guy, him! He said Im the one and I believe he is but I dont know what to do!
2007-03-20 23:52:53 · 5 answers · asked by Chiquita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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YOU were the rebound girl. I hate that when it happens.
Nah, Babygirl, you should cut your losses and move forward.
He's going to continue to use you as a substitute when THEY have a problem.
He kept you in the dark about his intentions and that's not being fair to you.
Just tell him it's a lesson learned. You may have gotten used to his routine and the day to day relationship, but don't sacrifice what you deserve for temporary satisfaction.
Good luck!
2007-03-21 02:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just got weak and needed a little piece. I think you should forgive him. I give him a big salute for telling you because the average man would have never admitted that. So aleast give him credit for that. Good luck
2007-03-21 00:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so if his really in love with you coz im also n that situation and you know that boys are boys they will do everything just to get what they want without thinking or consediring other feelings........
2007-03-21 00:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by cheezzee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give him another chance on a short rope.
2007-03-20 23:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is why he's your EX. He must always stay as an EX. Once a cheater will always be a cheater.
2007-03-20 23:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋