Does it mea n that a guy is not that into you when he stands you up on a date?

Question

There is this guy who had asked me out on a date then told me that he would call prior to the set date to find out if it was still on. The guy did not even bother. After a few days we met along the corridors in school, I deliberately ignored him. On that night he sent me a text saying that he would still love to go out on a date with me. I did not reply. That weekend, he called me, I ignored his call and never talked to him since. Question is, why he did not call as he had said he would and he had to wait till we met in school to text me. Was he really into me?

Answer 1

If he cant get it together the FIRST time...do you actually think he'd be any better the second???

Answer 2

Well, maybe u shouldn't have ignored him, love. He may have made a genuine mistake, but perhaps I'm wrong. He may just want to be mates, and is not into u in the romantic way. Maybe try asking him what happened. He can only tell u what was on his mind. Maybe he really forgot to pick u up. It happens, u know. Give him a chance, love. U never know what might happen.
Good luck.

Answer 3

There could be other circumstances. I stood a girl up once and she really got mad.
I had told a friend about the date I had with her. He told me that he also asked her out on a date, but she didn't show up. And he assured me that she'd do the same to me. So I decided that wasn't going to happen to me. Because, I considered this other guy much more attractive than me.
The next day she jumped me about not showing up. When I told her why, she simply said," I liked you, I didn't like him."

So, ask him why he broke the date. He may have a good explanation.

Answer 4

He may be a poor communicator and you're not giving him a chance to explain.

Once does not make a pattern. Who knows why he didn't call? Maybe he thought he said he'd call if he could go.

I don't know. But neither will you if you don't let him talk to you. Don't make assumptions based on the first time someone makes a mistake.

Answer 5

if hes still calling you then it looks as though he's probably into you. talk to him and ask him why hehe didnt call to arrange the time. if he gives you a valid answer then its just a mistake, if he said he totally forget and he seems genuine about it give him another chance. but if he does it again with no reason then consider him sonmeone who doesnt care for you and just think that you deserve much better.

Answer 6

Instead of being immature and snubbing him you should just ask him why he never called. Obviously he is still interested of going on a date with you and obviously you still want it too. Maybe somthing came up and he just couldn't do the date. Grow up.

Answer 7

In school? Lighten up... your in school... it happens. Get ready for life. This is just the beginning. There could be 101 reasons why this happened. We're you studying for finals? Does he work?... This is a time in your life when things are busy and things are happening. It could have been an innocent mistake.

Answer 8

The best way to TrY & find the answer to this might be to confront him & ask what the deal with him is !?!not CALLING !?! I take it he does have your number judging from what's stated here.,."Nothing will get done or move forwrd if you two do'nt talk at some point !?! ~!!!

Answer 9

Did you ask him why he didn't call? There could be a million reasons. And the reason he does give will reveal something about his charater.

Answer 10

yeah he could be - maybe something came up and he was to Embarrassed to call you and tell you why he was unable to meet up with you, could be no cash or a family issue.