my friend's bf is currently overseas studying. and he still has another two more years to go. and when he comes back for vacation, they all lovey dovey and fine. but once he leaves, my friend would start dating other guys behind his back. i've talked to her about it and she knows what she's doing is wrong and she has even said if XX(her official bf) dumps me, i deserve it. i've told her to end it with all her b2 b3 b4 and etc(boyfriend 2, 3, 4 etc) but she just said she couldn't do it. she needed male company like 24/7! how can i help her?
2007-03-20 23:39:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
problem is she always come to me and whine about what she's gonna do. and how she wanna continue seeing this b2 or b3 or b4 and keeping her r/s with her B1....
2007-03-20 23:44:02 · update #1
She told you what it was--so it is none of your business--she has to live with the truth--not you !! She is dishonest, disrespectful, shows no dignity or integrity, and has a tendancy to look for attention and acceptance from men. It is her problem--or her delight---like I said it is her choice--so butt out. Good luck
2007-03-20 23:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sound like you can help her. She likes the attention of a males companion. But the bad thing is.,,,, is the guy that is studying being faithful? If so, I feel bad for the guy. If not, then I think the relationship works out.
2007-03-20 23:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jack R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is as dumb as a brick, how many diseases does she have. You have done your part now make sure you back up so you will not get burned when she goes down in a flaming blaze.
2007-03-20 23:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your problem. Sometimes people are just insecure, and need someone there to reassue them that they have worth. Or--maybe she is just keeping him on the hook until she finds something better. Either way, it is not you, it is between them.
2007-03-20 23:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have talked to her before, but she refused to stop.So leave her alone let her do what she wants. iI is not like it mattered to her when you told her before .If u keepon telling her to stop she will end up resenting you for it.
2007-03-20 23:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you want to help but you need to relise this is her life and she can do what she likes whether its wrong or right its her life to **** up
2007-03-20 23:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave be!
2007-03-20 23:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by LEE DA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋