I have begun attending church groups in the last month. I am 28 yo
On the first night I met a 25 yo lady who seemed to want to talk to me. We were having a good conversation but since it was getting late I cut it off.
When I saw her next she asked for my email and phone number so she could send me more info about the group, which she did via email - why did she need my phone number?
there was an activity day last weekend where I saw her again. She had her nice shoes on. I didn't talk to her much as I wanted to meet the other people. On my way leaving the church I saw her waiting around with her friends she told me we can have coffee to discuss anything. I didn't think much about it at that time so I politely suggested a lift home if she was stuck, said goodbye and left.
She has crossed my mind since so I want to give her further attention. I don't know what is appropriate behaviour in these spiritual situations?
2007-03-20 23:08:53 · 4 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
She is hinting that she would like to get to know you better by mentioning going out for coffee. If you think you would like her, ask her for coffee. Keep it casual for a while though, because while church is a good place to meet someone (better than a bar anyway) from my experience, there are about 90 percent women and 10 percent men at these functions. You don't want to tie yourself down so early in the game. P.S. If you do ask her out for coffee, do so by calling her aside. If she is with her friends, they will be hurt or insulted that you didn't ask them.
PPS: Maybe this is a better idea. If she is talking with her friends, perhaps you could walk up to the group (takes courage I know) and say, "Would anyone like to go for coffee?" If more than one go, you can find out which one you like the most. If no one says yes (God forbid) just say, "Well maybe some other time," and walk (don't run) away.
2007-03-21 00:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by NeNe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it man, because church people like to talk alot, just leave it as church friends
2007-03-20 23:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you. If you want to "give her further attention" then ask her out.
Appropriate behaivor is the same no matter what social circle you are in.
2007-03-22 10:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by pacoferdinand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest u not to go. But u may go, if u feel u will not b n ne problem
2007-03-20 23:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by Areek Says 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋