2007-03-20 22:23:38 · 21 answers · asked by shalu_emirates 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Y not...........
Why do u have this doubts.......pls tell that first.........then wl be able to help u..........
2007-03-20 22:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Vns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be very much happy in your married life, if married at the earliest, in your community, without dowry with a known person, have a child within a year to declare your probation period successfully, have the next child after 3-5 years, be faithful to your spouse, accept & respect the elders + relatives + friends (past, present & future) of spouse and shall not create any problem.
2007-03-21 01:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage made in heaven. It is a relation man & woman,forfeiting their personal liking joined "to get her" leaving their own father & mother.Love only can hold them together, but this adjustment is very thinware which go hayware if both could not stand together. so keep the thread of family life a lot love and care with the help God I can say it will go a long way wish u a happy married life !
2007-03-20 22:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by SK 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely if u r positive, soft , sweet & co-operative in speech & action from the first day itself with husband in all respects. After all, husband is going to be your life partner for at least 5 decades to share happiness & grief(pray God it never comes) equally. He will be your best friend, lover & guardian too. Decide with him in the first meeting itself after marriage that u both will never confront each other & try best to keep both happy & keep the atmosphere sweet at home. Frame your plan in mind positively how u will be able to keep him happy in all respects, be it small matter or big one. He will reciprocate positively. Maintain your nature to be simple, sweet, God fearing & pray regularly for having happy married life. God listens sincere prayers , undoubtedly. Never disclose details of your private life to anybody. Both of u should maintain personal diaries of daily important routines particularly about health problems. Move everything in post marriage life according to plans with positive discussions of both in each & every aspect. House keeping is a new field for both for most couples, both have to learn gradually & patiently. In this field compete with husband positively who fares better everyday & give a pleasant gift to each other every fortnightly for pleasing performance. Follow the principles of three monkeys of Gandhiji. Go for sight seeing regularly at least after every 2 weeks. Be a thinker. Don't do anything or take quick decisions in haste without thinking & analysing about the same. Read & watch positive things only. Never be interested in backbiting. Make in laws your best friends as it is the case for most of the people completely opposite to what is shown(wrongly) in TV serials. Read a good book about post marrital life. If u wish u can read the book 'Tohfatul Uroos', available in English too written by a Turkish auther long ago, irrespective of your religion or a similar book of your choice.
2007-03-21 02:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligent question and courageous enough to ask so.....i myself doubt being happy if i get married....in our society it is inevitable....so u be happy or not hardly matters as long as society sees u as married...good luck
2007-03-22 00:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by siddhartha g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not ?
Congratulations !
Try to learn new things. Try to listen more. Love everyone in th efamily. They will also love you.
Happy married life.
2007-03-24 05:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by dil se 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-22 07:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear its upon u. how u going to take your life after marriage.rest nothing is impossible and tough. understand ur wife very well before marriage. if you know each other well then physically and social problems does not matter.
2007-03-22 00:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both parties work hard to keep the love alive then I see no reason why not. Communication is vital.
2007-03-21 05:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how much u give up for no reasons are u ready for it then marry
2007-03-20 22:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try, This is the dish if don't it you can not find the test,only after eating you will know whether you can diciest it or not so try .
2007-03-20 22:49:36 · answer #11 · answered by lucky s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋