About every time I go out I always get hit on even in front of my GF. She will get so mad at me when this happens.
She says it's because I'm hot and that she is afraid she will lose me. I try to make her feel better by telling her how much I love her. What would you like to hear/be done if you had boyfriend in my position. Thanks
BTW* I keep it real with poems, roses, and gifts but she still just worried to death about it.
2007-03-20 22:08:37 · 7 answers · asked by Kassey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
angel thats an awsome advice thanks....
We have been going out for about a year and half. And the best part is we still have flirting like feeling you get when you first meet someone. I love that about our relationship.
I'm am so whipped... actually I think we both are whipped...
2007-03-20 22:29:21 · update #1
when someone hits on you in front of her... quickly introduce your "girlfriend". make sure you always say "here is my girlfriend". act like you are totally and madly in love with her infront of other girls. but you don't have to act like that infront of the other guys.
2007-03-20 22:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright Kassey,
Here's the truth. I think my baby is hot too... When we go out girls are ALWAYS hitting on him. I remember one time we went to Pizza Hut and the waitress passed him her number.
I didn't find out about it till we were outside because I was quite curious as to why he would have left the bill at the place.
He had to hold me down kicking and screaming cause I'm telling you... I was going after her if he didn't hold me back.
I would have given it to her and then let the manager have piece of my mind next...
We had a long discussion about it and I was mad like hell.
He sent me the roses and took me for ice cream and all the other babying things.
He does what he can to make me know its really about me.
What I've decided is that I approach these girls before they come around.
We were at a party recently and I went to get us some drinks and I wasn't even two minutes before there was a girl shaking her tush in front of him. I gave her one look and she disappeared. My bf almost fell over laughing.
I not playing dem games... I'm sorry...
Some girls just downright disrespectful.
There's not much more he can do to let me know that I'm the one so I've decided to act like the one and I suggest your girl do the same.
If she's the one then all other girls just need to step.
Lol,
I hope she gets to readmy answer with you and I wish you both the best.
ily!
2007-03-21 05:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by ilyena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay. you have to prove to her that she can trust you. to do so may take a while. sometimes you need to EARN someone's trust. it also depends on how long you've been together. if you two haven't been together for long, it's normal for her to feel insecure. but if you have been dating for quite a while, she really needs to learn to trust you. i can tell you're trying your best to reassure her, but girls just worry too much. i think your gf will feel more secure and trusting if you completely ignore whoever approaches you in the future. if other girls start flirting with you, hold your gf's hand more tightly, or put your arms around her shoulder. show that she's still the one you care for. also, when other girls hit on you, don't smile back. keep a monotonous face to show that you're not interested and just walk away with your gf. i promise if you do that every time, she'll feel 100% secure. i would totally love it if i was in your gf's position. i hope i helped!
2007-03-21 05:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a lyric that would suit. (i think)
It's not enough to be the one who holds you
It's not enough to be the one your close to
I want to be so much more
The love that your living for
The air you breath
I wanna be everything that touches you everything
[Chorus:]
I wanna be the rain that falls on you
Washes away the pain
I wanna be the sun that shines on you
Warms your world each day
I wanna be the sky that holds the stars for you
So you never lose your way
I wanna be the wind that kisses your face
I wanna be the rain
It's not enough for me to be around you
I wanna be everything that surrounds you
The sun to light up on your skin
Each breath that your breathing in
Or that you need
I wanna be everything that touches you everything
[Chorus:]
I wanna be the rain that falls on you
Washes away the pain
I wanna be the sun that shines on you
Warms your world each day
I wanna be the sky that holds the stars for you
So you never lose your way
I wanna be the wind that kisses your face
I wanna be the rain
And even in your sleep
when your dreaming
I wanna be the only thing you see
won't you be there in everything
[Chorus:]
I wanna be the rain that falls on you
Washes away the pain
I wanna be the sun that shines on you
Warms your world each day
I wanna be the sky that holds the stars for you
So you never lose your way
I wanna be the wind that kisses your face
I wanna be the rain
I wanna be the... rain
Rain..
The Rain
RBD - i want to be the rain
2007-03-21 05:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by ctkm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are "hot" then she knows that there is always going to be women hitting on you, and she knows that there is always going to be competition for you, and she knows that you will always have temptation in your life.
She needs to get over it though, and feel lucky that she has such a good looking guy that really loves her lots. If she don't get over it soon, then give me a call ;-) lol
Cheers
2007-03-21 05:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Daft One 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your doing the right thing. n if it's the way you say it then i'm not surprised se would act that way. that's exactly how i am.
but keep it up. make her feel special n tell her more than everyday that you love her!
2007-03-21 05:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get engaged!
2007-03-21 05:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋