I broke up with my ex-girlfriend a month ago. I agreed to be friends with her but she told me that she doesn’t want to be friends with me since she has a crush on me still and I am dating someone else. So we agreed not to talk to each other anymore. Despite the agreement my ex-girlfriend calls back and when I switch the line to speak to my dating partner my ex gets angry and sends me a voicemail and text message sayings that was messed up. I am trying to ignore her… however she has my home phone, family’s cell phone, my cell phone and even knows where I live. I thought I made the point across. How do I directly get her to stop calling me as my dating partner is questioning me talking to her?
2007-03-20 21:49:55 · 9 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First is to explain to your current girlfriend who she was and that the friendship is over. This is to give her ease of mind and ensure she isn't having second thought about your relationship. As for your ex-girlfriend, speak with her in the presence of your current girlfriend over the phone and let her know that you're now happily in loved and would be great if she could leave you alone. This way, you killed two birds with a stone.
2007-03-20 21:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advise her that if she continues to call and harass you-she will be reported to the police. If she is threatening you, save the voicemails she's leaving. If worse comes to worse you can file to get a restraining order and that INCLUDES phone calls. If she breaks that order, she goes to jail.
2007-03-20 21:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her, she just cant accept that you broke up with her. Self denial. Let her feel so tired.. Then tell ur new dating partner about the situation. Just give her time annoying you. Thats all. Well its the result of your break up with her. "Scary"
Your new gf will also be more annoying than ur ex if u broke up with her too. Maybe ur just so damn delicious.. So hard to resist. U make girls feel its their lost when u dump them.
2007-03-20 22:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put her phone number on block. She will get the message after awhile!
2007-03-20 21:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Alicia E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop calling you and mean it - Or you will have nothing but trouble and it is not fair to your new girlfriend -- Heck change your number
2007-03-20 21:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider a restraining order.
2007-03-20 21:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop taking her calls- and warn her before doing that.
http://www.relationship-affairs.com/your-ex.html
2007-03-20 21:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE PERSISTENT.. Keep telling her to get out of your life.. Never give into any weak moments.. She will get the idea
2007-03-20 21:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her while you are having sex. Let her listen to the reality.
She will stop calling.
2007-03-20 21:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by courtney_hewitt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋