When me and my wife were together she was completely different, Back when we were married we had a great relationship. the only problem was she cared about me so much that it made her insecure about losing me. I guess some HATERS out there put it in her head that I was messing around behind her back though I never did. Now we're divorced, And I've since moved out of state, Now she's satisfied with messing around with guys without the commitment (A complete 180). Is this a typical thing to happen to women when they lose a good relationship.
2007-03-20 19:02:16 · 11 answers · asked by nightpanther_79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably . maybe those who are content find it's better than being committed and having less freedom
2007-03-20 19:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally DO NOT believe that anyone is satisfied to be "just messing around" with anyone.
Everyone wants a commitment, love, and respect. You do not have those things when you are "just messing around".
This is just a phase that she is going through right now, because her self esteem is very LOW.
What she needs right now is a really good friend to raise her up, make her feel good about herself and let her know that she is better than that..and she will stop that type of destructive behaviour.
Cheers
2007-03-20 19:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouln't say its typical but its certainly natural to want companionship after a divorce. And I'm sure there is some fear involved in getting into another serious relationship so I guess the whole friends w/ benefits thing fits that bill too.
What is atypical is u posting this question!
2007-03-20 19:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Babumoshai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really not sure. I'm 24. I have been divorced for 3 1/2 years. I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and 4 months. During those years after my divorce I did not have any "friends with benefits". I suffered with no sex till I met my boyfriend. But no, I don't think its right for someone to have "friends with benefits" after a divorce.
2007-03-20 19:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've stepped away to work out what befell at an earlier aspect, yet you probably did not, and she hasn't stepped away both. Her marriage is over. that's no longer as a lot as you to take one hundred% of the duty for this, yet you won't be able to assert the breakup isn't some thing to do with you both, because that's. i'm no longer likely to criticise you for figuring out to purchase in contact including her, and that i imagine that anybody who says you're to be blamed for this hasn't ever been in this kind of problem themselves. yet you should do the right issue by ability of her now, and which ability being there for her in in spite of potential she needs and needs. do no longer make lengthy run plans, and do not assume to run this particular practice both. no individual can say yet how this can practice lengthy time period. There should be no "very last judgements" and speaking like that basically injects more beneficial unnecessary stress into the problem. you do not say why you're going/want to bypass foreign places for for a year, yet you want to delay it. desire this helps.
2016-12-02 08:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by bennison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can tell you is that it happened to me. It didn't last too long but one way I dealt with the pain of the breakup was with a lot of sex and I sure wasn't ready for another relationship. Eventually I settled down again.
2007-03-20 19:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got out of a marriage, and that would be super.
I think it's a typical thing when everyone gets out of any relationship. Just sleep your way through forgetting... it's pretty common.
2007-03-20 19:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your ex-wife is enjoying every single moment of her freedom right now, or she is hurt by the divorce that she just wanna date without any commitments
2007-03-20 19:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your unfortunate situation, but it does sound like she is enjoying some freedom at the moment.
2007-03-20 19:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by ask me ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOKS like she really went down hill.
2007-03-20 19:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋