ive been on and of with a boy for a year and a half nearly he is 4 years older than me and goes to college and has a job we decided to give it a break as we was arguing alot and it has now been a month and a half i think he has a new gf how can i tell?
2007-03-20 18:57:50 · 15 answers · asked by kerryyyy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im to scared to ask him because he'll just say im being stupid,.
2007-03-20 19:03:57 · update #1
Just be honest about how do you feeling with this regard. Maintain personal boundaries in how he treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Good communication skills are a key ingredient to success.
Ask him.
Be brief, clear and polite.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. If your relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then NO, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Good luck and make a better choice next time!
2007-03-20 19:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Interior Designer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he ignores your call and makes excuses for things then you have an idea. If he doesn't want to go out anymore then you will know or is it he wants you when he wants sex and then only the other when you don't give him what he wants. If you both gave it a break you should know for sure that he is interested in someone else, weather or not he did anything only he can tell you. If you want my advice I would look for someon new and forget him period. You need to be loved just like any other person in the world. Take care Heather
2007-03-20 19:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking him there's no turn around I mean the best thing is the direct thing you know... relationships are always a roller coaster because it depend on the communication and things in common within a person and another one since the time things doesn't work, well it's time to review if both are looking for the same goals or it is better to take separate ways but the real thing is that talking directly is the best way to answer your question. so Do it and remember there are many ways to arrive to any place, by rounding it or by going through and directly to it.
you have the choice!
All the best!
2007-03-20 19:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by andymccartney772006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does. He is 4 years older and in college. You are barely in high school. He has moved on and so should you. He is in a whole different world now. If he doesnt call or say he wants to be with you...move on. He has told you to kick rocks...so do it! Stop worrying about who he is with!
2007-03-20 19:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him...
Then look for the signs:
1. No interested in you as a woman
2. Lying
3. Make arguements over nothing
4. Not wanting to be with you
Good luck
2007-03-20 19:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by CURIOUS GEORGE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proceed as if he does. Dont waste your time and energy worrying about someone who CLEARLY does not have you as a priority in his life. He's just Not that into you.
"He's just NOT that into you" is a book written by Greg Behrendt, get it and read it, you'll feel better about your future dealings with men and you'll know how to weed out the idiots too.
2007-03-20 19:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter if he has a new girlfriend? He isn't being very helpful to you anyway!
If he really was interested in you he would be treating you better. Do you want to waste more time on him?
2007-03-20 19:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is in collage u just need to give up n plus how much older he is right now he is thinkin the grass is greener on the other side
2007-03-20 19:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by chas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely you could desire to talk with him and locate out his intentions with u.You the two sound like ur not happy on your contemporary relationship and can desire to be sure what the subsequent step is.
2016-11-27 19:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by isador 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL him and talk to him. THEN ask him straight up. BECAUSE you have a right to know.
2007-03-20 19:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋