she well i guess still is a friend of mine but we go to separate schools and dont hang out much if ever and the last time we hung out we kissed and now she wont talk to me and everytime i call to see if she wants to hang out i get the same answer "Maybe...I dunno" i asked her out a while ago and she said she didnt want to date anyone, and that i am like a brother to her so she couldnt date me and then i find out she is dating her ex that treats her like crap. i mean does she just not like me at all or what?
2007-03-20 18:56:27 · 34 answers · asked by m1carbine44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know it might sound funny but i cant stop thinking about her...
2007-03-20 18:59:17 · update #1
YJIplayer i told her i liked her before i kissed her we were playing truth or dare (yeah kinda childish for 17yr olds) but i had to say if i liked her and i said yes and she kinda blushed and then i got dared to kiss her so we did but it wasnt like a big kiss...so idk...
2007-03-20 19:18:08 · update #2
deanne033
wow never heard that before lol
2007-03-28 17:07:49 · update #3
No, give it up.
2007-03-28 16:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by ushoveit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all...if a girl treats you like a friend; tell her you like her before you kiss her. Gals get confused when someone they think of as a friend behaves in a different way.
Okay. Now the first thing you need to do is apologize to her for wat happened. If she is not talkin` to you properly, it means she is still uncomfortable with you. Leave her a message or call her. But don't continue talkin` to her or something. tell her if she's cool with you now; she would probably be cool, but don't bet on it. Gals can be complicated.
If she's cool, don't suddenly ask her to hang out with you or something...tat will be too fast hotshot. Find out where she hangs out often, and one day "run into her unexpectedly" . Ask her how's she's been. DON'T BRING OUT THE WHOLE KISSING TOPIC. If she starts on it first, then continue, but find out how she felt about it. Try not to ask... read in between the lines of wat she says. Remember, you're not trying to go on with her...u'r tryin to get along.
After tat, try to contact her every now and then. Don't be desperate...call her every now and then. and if she asks why you called, just say you wanted to catch up.Try to be good friends with her. But somewhere along the way...you will come to a point where the path splits...on one side it is friendship...and on the other will be love. unfortunately, there is no way to know when this will happen. Let your heart tell you.
Remember to always treat her nicely (this doesn't mean buying gifts!) . Ask her how was her day...how she's feelin`...make her feel wanted. If your nice, she might just like you more than her crappy guy. Well good luck!
next, fin
2007-03-20 19:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by YJIplayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 she prolly dont want to ruin ur alls friend ship #2 maybe she cant look at u like tht #3 take it from a girl if she wouldnt talk to u after the kiss then she looks at it as a mistake i dont mean to b so crude but the truth hurts n i just figure this wouild help u to let go dont sit n dwel on sumtin cuz it never pays off i waited on some one for 6yrs just to end up heart broken just try to salvage the lil bit of friend ship u have left and ease up about **** b4 she leaves out of ur life completly
2007-03-20 19:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by chas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't like you. I know that game I've played it before with a guy that I kissed I completely stayed away from him and said the same things she said, then went out and got a different boyfriend. I thought I liked him but then realised that I didn't.
2007-03-20 19:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by 10.95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like she said to you that she thinks of you like a brother.
Ya know I would leave it that way for a while and just stay friends, Your still young yet. Her feelings might change. She is so use to be treated like crap. Keep being nice to her and she will come around.
2007-03-28 17:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by samiam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Action speak louder than words.
Judging by the way it is going, she treats you as her friend or a brother. Be thankful for that.
Try to accept what you can not change. Anyway, you are still young. There are lots of girls over there!
2007-03-20 19:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by september 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess one way to show her how you really feel is to send her flowers or sit down and write her a letter and tell her how you feel and explain to her that the ex treatin her bad is never a good thing and if she has any kind of spark in her heart for you she will read the letter over and over and then give you the answer you are so longing for !!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!
2007-03-28 17:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by mrr09016340 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW You really dig this chick...But the feeling are not so there for her...tell you what before you loose every thing step back...Just be the big brother she sees in you....be there for her threw every thing..talk to her when she needs you...try and go out with other girls...make her see you have pulled away...you never know she might just start liking you more for not being so pushy and then you might just win her over...make sense? good I know it will be hard but try it see what happens...better to have Little of her for along time then loose all of her for ever...good luck and God Bless....let me know what happens.......ttyl
2007-03-28 17:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alrite dude, i was in the same situation. ask yourself which is more important: your friendship or "love" relationship? you need to talk this over with her. thats what i did. try not to be too annoying, but try to talk to her during those short and subtle times you see her. and sometimes, its actually better to just give her her own space to think. she may be as confused as you, and just persistantly talking about a relationship with her may not be the best course of action. give her time. let her sort out her own problems first. everything will work out
2007-03-20 19:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by evo25zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok,I have been there. As a woman it is not that she don't like you, it's she does like you and is in fear that if it don't work out she will lose a friend as well as her new bo. let her see how she chose the wrong one. give it a little time and back off some and let her miss you. i really hope that everything works out well for both of you.
2007-03-28 16:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by shelli 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think she does like you. but being that y'all was friends and then shared an intimate moment, she doesn't know how to take the friendship.the best of relationships start out as good friends.wait a minute and let nature take it's course.continue to be her friend.be good to her.show her that you really care and want to take things to the next level.show her before you tell her. let her see what it really is to be a good man.good things come to those who wait.
2007-03-28 17:19:55 · answer #11 · answered by nancy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋