im a 19 yr student.. and all my friends are invoved bascially my bf is aboard and u know its a lil bit disturbing i tink i'm finally ready but my bf is not here wat to do???
2007-03-20 18:52:27 · 31 answers · asked by sweet_oreo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You come so far,dont throw it away on a whim,better still save yourself for your wedding night.
2007-03-20 19:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by siaosi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be very proud of yourself for keeping yourself..well for a lack of better words "pure" the way young girls these days are having sex you'd think we went back to the 1800 when kids were getting married at the age of 12 and 13..but the difference is back then they might have been 12 years old but they actted like they were 25.I was sitting in a pharmcacy "NO LIE" last week and a woman came in with her daughter just a little thing to me looked 10 years old.and i over heard the lady explaining that her daughter needed a morning after pill because she was out having sex with her boyfriend.and the part that got me was when she said "AGAIN"..so if you are really a virgin be proud..sex is wonderfull and you are really missing out on something great but if it's not with a person you love and care it won't be nearly as good..ask any man who cheats on his wife.he'll tell you it's fun having sex with another woman and it's excitting but there is still no better sex feeling than when he is with his wife...so keep it till you are sure you are with someone who respects you and will love you for who you are..and besides there are other ways of having sex without intercourse..you can do stuff to each other to have a great orgasm..so think about it..
2007-03-20 19:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by rcbrokebones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much to do. You're ready because it's with him right? BEcause you're comfortable enough in your guy's relationship? I he's abroad you will just have to wait... You wouldn't have any where the same experience if it were with someone else. PLus, just because you're nineteen and a virgin in college doesn't mean you have to rush... There are still people out there in the world that aren't all rushed into everything. Dont feel pressured, wait til when it's right.
2007-03-20 18:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by LoveisfirE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready! You are never ready unless you are deeply in love with somebody. I am not kidding and I haven't tried it yet but I know from my older sis that its better to make out with a monkey than somebody who might not even love you even a bit because at least you wouldn't regret that monkey forgot your phone number.
Please dont rush and I am sure that if you fall deeply in love with somebody it will just happen, that is, it shouldn't be something voluntarily, I mean it should come from inside of you (that urge and passion).
Best of luck!
2007-03-20 18:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by miss_magic047 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend is 21 and she is still a virgin. I respect it because I know she is not ready, but I am willing to wait. A girls first time determines the rest of her life sexually, so take your time. Get all the info you need, and make sure you both love each other. Thats all we can do!
2007-03-20 18:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by fatdoggie86 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so in a hurry to get into sex? I'm sure it is not in your school syllabus right? So why must follow what people do? It does not make you weird if you are different. So honour your virginity and concentrate on getting good grades. Guys will be plenty for you to choose after you graduate.
2007-03-20 18:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. There are worse things than being a virgin at 19. You could be pregnant and he still be abroad!
2007-03-20 19:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i lost my virginty at the age of 19 but i derfintly waited for the right guy..i say wait until you see your bf...but only have sex with him if your realli love him beacuse soooooooo many girls i know that lost it regret it...you have to be 100% positive..dont do it jus beacuse everyone else is or their pressuring you or teasing you...beacuse ive been there and i got thru it....and im happy with the way things turned out...goodluck
2007-03-20 18:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You want to give your kids a good impression of you as a teen.Come on, you're only a feww years away of marraige, wait a little!You wouldn't want your children to have sex as a child, and pass that horrible tradition on to thier kids and grandkids!
2007-03-20 19:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK i am 27 and a virgin and pretty+ proud. AND i have had offers but i want Gods best 4 me. SO hang in there girl.
2007-03-20 18:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋