Ok here it goes i am in a long distance relationship, i just got back home from college because my mom has cancer, basically i quit to take care of her. But i dont know if my boyfriend is trust worthy, well like i want to trust him but it feels like i cant and i dont know what to do. I love him, but its to hard to trust him, because already i have had other girls at this college trying to break us up and its hard. Plus he likes to party and here i am staying home taking care of my mom, so what do i say to that? Its hard not trusting a person you love.
2007-03-20 18:51:46 · 10 answers · asked by sweethoney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you truly want to know, ask. its not wrong to ask really, cuz communication is one of the main components of a relationship (obviously) another main component of relationships is trust...consider that
2007-03-20 18:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by evo25zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant trust someone all you are going to do is eat yourself up in side worrying what they are up to when you need to focus your energy on your own emotional well being and the well being of your Mum. I would take the high ground and be the one to break it off, before he humiliates you behind your back while you out of town. Even if there is a speck of mistrust its only going to hurt you all the wondering and pondering on what he is up to while you arent there. If you cant even leave him to take care of such an urgent matter at home, then what respect does he have for you and for your relationship. your right its hard not trusting someone you love, but can you truly love someone you dont trust?
2007-03-20 18:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Hal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to tel you that in a long distance relationship trust is one big key factor and if you do not trust him then you really should not stay together because you Will always be wondering if he is being faithful even if he is being faithful and tels you he his you wont believe him and you will just make yourself crazy wondering . I think you should concentrate on taking care of your mom right now and when the time is right you wil meet someone that you can trust.
2007-03-20 18:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love requires lots of trust and if you can't deal with that, just go slow. Time will tell. Use your better judgment when dealing in long distant relationships.
2007-03-20 18:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by dolly O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all im really sorry about your mom, And about that i think in that kind of situation it is hard to decide i mean maybe his trustworthy and it could be that his not because i dont know him i cant say anything just think about it, when other girls talk to him or try to break you guys up does he talk to them and starts to flirt or does he not care and just talks to you i mean all this stuff matters just have to think about it yourself.
2007-03-20 18:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship can't work without trust. Talk to him, do whatever you have to do to learn to trust him, but if it doesn't work out, then you need to move on. You won't ever be happy if you can't completly depend on him.
2007-03-20 18:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you love about someone you can't trust and does not support you at such a time in your life?? Like you need more grief?
2007-03-20 18:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell everything he often makes you feel. Because if there is no trust there is no love.
2007-03-20 18:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by kaye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found out that you can't have a relationship without trust...
2007-03-20 18:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by 10.95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you have proof its all in your head. try to get out of the house once in a while. best wishes with your mum
2007-03-20 18:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋