He seems to be interested in me. But he keeps talking about his ex that dumped him three years ago. He says he is over her. But he says he loves her and will love her forever. I am confused. What should I think? What should I do? I know he is not going to go back to her but is it worth pursuing this relationship? I really like him. Thank you.
2007-03-20 18:08:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anya S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd have to say that he is very confused about his priorities. I'd only pursue him if I had the patience. Who knows, if you really like him, a relationship could possibly work out. You would need to give him time to adjust to this if he agreed to a romance with you. He will probably talk about his ex often so brace yourself for that. Hey, it took me 3 years to get over my ex. However I don't like to refer to her like that. We're friends now. I'm now looking for love myself (I'm not insinuating anything though). My point is to give him a chance. I do understand, however, that patience has its limits. Ask him for a date. I know that goes against the "traditional" rules of dating, but he'll probably be too afraid to ask you so you must ask him. Just approach him and ask him sweetly. If he's willing, he'll oblige you. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you succeed.
2007-03-20 18:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by bond_fan_001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're both still young and learning how to have relationships. You would be wise to tell him that he has become a bit of a bore on the topic. That we all have had relationships we cherished in the past and moved on. It's okay to remember them fondly but the key to moving on is letting it go and putting the emphasis on what is happening today.
2007-03-21 01:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not worth your time. If he is living in the past, and can't move on, that means he is very insecure. IF you were to ever ween him off of his ex, then he'd do the same thing with you, which is probably why she broke up with him to begin with... HE'S CLINGY. Yes, you may like him, Yes, he may be a great guy, but if he can't move on, then you should.
Please store all emotional baggage in the overhead compartment.
2007-03-21 01:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by Waddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright this always works for me talk to him why he still thinks about her then when he gives u the awnser just tell him that it was 3 years ago and he needs to get over her and move on with his life and if u like him just hang out with him dress nice and always talk to him and once ur sensing something ask him if he wants to go out with u but u ask him then he cant say no to ur face but if he says no then he is still not over his ex if hes not then hes too self centered and u need to just leave him alone and just tell him GET OVER UR SELF AND MOVE ON WITH UR LIFE ok hope that helps
2007-03-21 01:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would strongly urge you to stay away form any boy who still speaks incessently about an ex form 3 years ago.. he still has baggae you do not need to take on!
2007-03-21 01:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you like him, that's what I did! And if he still has feeling for the other girl leave him alone. Obviously he can't make up his mind.
2007-03-21 01:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want him, be blunt if you have to. show him that if doesn't get over her he is going to lose you. guys like that, trust me. I would kill for that to happen to me
2007-03-21 01:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by smoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋