Okay there this guy I know and he kind of cute but how do i know if he likes me because we use to talk. but when when i ask who he liked. and he didn't answer me. now he acting shy around me
2007-03-20 17:46:32 · 12 answers · asked by S J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask him if he likes you - or tell him you like him and go from there. if he doesnt react well to what you say, then its not worth it
2007-03-20 17:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask who he likes, he won't say. You ask if he likes you, he will definately say no. I am a guy, and honestly I was just like that. I really passed up my moment with the girl of my dreams. I should have taken the stretch and asked her out. To be honest, guys are only friends with girls who they think are good-looking or decent. Ever seen a chess chick hanging out with a soccer jock? No way. Unless the jock happens to be really smart and has classes with her. This chess chick is what we call the "mutual" friend. Good for homework and classwork help only. If you keep asking him about his personal affections then that will only lead him away from you. That's what the girl did to me, it got really awkward. If this kid has never had a girlfriend, then honestly he's probably head-over-heels for you. But he has no guts. Probably too scared of rejection.
Hold on, my friend's over and a nice chick. Let me get them to write something.
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Well it depends..... there are two different seniro's here
1) Most likely you should jsut let him make the first move. Guys like making the first move, they like feeling like they are the ones in control and such. You making the first move would suprise and threaten him. It's challenging his masculinity and his manhood. He's already foreward enough because as you've stated he is INCREDIBLY sweet to you. I reccomend you be very patient with him, and wait for him to make the move.
However........
2) If he could be described as the pushover type..... he's lloking for a woman to take charge. YOu can spot these guys out like a sore thumb.... they are looking for the woman to lead and if you dont respond to his "sweetness" soon enough he'll think your taking advantage or just not interest. In this instance i think you should definately make the first move when you are ready, just know not to take too long
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OMG Boys they think they know us.....well here's my viewpoint. Hope you like it!!!
Keep an eye on how many times you catch him staring at you.
Take notice of whether he smiles at you a lot.
Look for whether he focuses on you in a crowd.
Observe if he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends.
Pay attention to any significant changes in his behavior toward you recently.
Start showing him a bit more interest and see how they respond.
Have a friend talk to him or one of his friends about you.
2007-03-20 17:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by cheezzznitz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a little something-something for you. Just one day have 2 of something, candy bar, whatever;make sure it's something he likes or it won't work. One day just be sitting there eating it. when he sees you throw him one. Within the the first week, you will know if he likes you are not by he's next week actions. If you don't fel like going around da world, thn simply ask him; only bad thing that could happen is he'll say a basically "no".
2007-03-20 17:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Answerz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that reminded so much of me..but yea...of course hes acting shy around you...but i cant really tell you anything because all i know is that he didnt say anything...right? but who knows...just talk to him and see if he says anything......and ask him the same question again...
2007-03-20 17:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. It could be possible. I usally always watch body language guys usally tend to tilt thier head to the side when your taliking if thier interested in you. They also tend to lean towards you like there shoulders towards you. Everyones different though sometimes you have to blunt and ask .
2007-03-20 17:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by mynameischeese2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one to answer.
If he didn't answer it could be two things, either it is you, or a friend of yours- most likely.
Maybe you should tell him how you feel first?
2007-03-20 17:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by Rori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are he does like you! he probobly think you dont like him, i woudl make the first move! even if you ask him out on a grouo date with yopu and your friends.
Good luck!
2007-03-20 17:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya id say he likes you..guys who are usally realli shy around gurls its becuz they like them..i say go for it goodluck
2007-03-20 17:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously already have a clue to what's going on aleady why are you asking this question if you already think something is already happening?
2007-03-20 17:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by Scpwnz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know! but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night.
2007-03-20 17:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋