okay so i met this girl one day and we started talking. Beautiful girl but i thought bah shes probably taken so i just talk to her. She stated to me that she had a boyfriend whom she thought was the one and they have a great reltionship. i congratulated her and told her how lucky he is just to be nice. she then started drilling me with questions about my love life and personal questions about what i find attractive. she seems to bring up her boyfriend and then just want to talk about my life about this topic. im single by the way but its come to the point to where its annoying. i noticed she seems to flirt with me but claims she loves her bf. Any suggestions why she seems to talk about my life after bringing her bf up and why she keeps flirting and wanting to know my type of girl? if she wanted to go out why doesnt she just ask? As far as i know she "Loves" her bf but why cant she stop asking me these types of questions? opinions pls..it is really annoying. i am a happy bachelor :)
2007-03-20 17:42:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did this same thing. she does like u but she wants to make u jealous and want her more by tellin u that she has a bf. most girls dont like askin guys out so if u like her, u need to tell her
2007-03-20 17:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by lalalachicka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not interested in you. Girls love to tease guys. Girls love to make guys think they are interested in them because they apparently find it fun to shut us down. You seem like a nice guy who isn't just on the prowl to get laid and is looking for a meaningful relationship. Girls don't know what they want. Actually they do know they want the bad boy who they are so sure that they can change when the already made nice guys are fun to fool with.
2007-03-20 18:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by Eli O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect this girl is on the lookout for someone else. She is probably looking over what is available. Do not invest too much until you see she is serious with you. Flirting is common and often does not mean anything. So go slow and be careful. Good Luck
2007-03-20 17:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is thinking of leaving her boyfriend and wants to see if you could be the next guy for her. or maybe she has a friend she wants to set up and wants to make sure you are a good match. or, maybe she is just an open, chatty, flitry person by nature and means nothing by it. just a few guesses, hope it helps. if not, just be blunt and ask her why she is so interested!!
2007-03-20 17:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps mixed signals. my guess is since she is in a secure relationship she feels natural about personal relationship topics (although i admit, asking about your mate preferences is bordering the line). i think she sees a great potential for a friend in you, or maybe she has a friend who is interested in you and wants to get info about you via her haha you never know. everytime she asks you these kind of stuff, observe her intensely, see how she looks at you, and try to confirm or disprove her interest in you. but never assume.
2007-03-20 17:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by 킹세븐 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably just tempting you. girls always like to feel wanted by guys (even if its sometimes not their boyfriends, however weird that is). just try not to give in to her temptations, because then her boyfriend will hate you and thats no good. just let her know how you feel about it being inappropriate, and she'll probably be embarrassed and stop.
2007-03-20 17:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol boys would be boys dont experience undesirable :) and my woman friends and that i try this too, we will all supply one yet another a glance yet shop talking and then as quickly as hes long previous go omgg lol Love Haleigh<3
2016-10-02 12:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if shes after you,when shes already has a boyfriend,then what makes you think,if you got her,she wouldnt do the same to you.
2007-03-20 17:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not coming onto you...she is only curious about you as an individual.
2007-03-20 17:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not only a bachelor you have became a toy
2007-03-20 17:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by Scpwnz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋