after that because of his ex he brokeoff with me, even i ignored him and cutoff with him for 6 months,after 6 months he contacted me said sorry and tried to make our relationship but suddenly his behavior changed , he started treating me as his friend only(there is no one in his life right now neither his ex).he told one of her friend(who is my friend as well) that he thinks things wont workout between me and him because of his family and all, his family knew about his ex and the mess she made with his family and all, he says its not possible for him to take a serious step, after hearing all this i started ignoring him and i started creating distance between us,after so long i wan online on msn yesterday, he messaged me asked me how i am and all i asked him how was he and all, he passed compliment on my pic said looking cute i like this colour you are wearing i just talked to him for minutes i said i m busy bye tc , what he wants?when what should i do? should i wait or move on?
2007-03-20 17:34:33 · 3 answers · asked by Ashiii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont feel like making relationship with any guy now......he hurt me twice (unintentionally).what should i do:(.......why is he behaving like this.....will he regret??
2007-03-20 17:38:56 · update #1
he hurt me twice (unintentionally).i dont feel like making relations with any one now.....why is he doing all this will he regret?
2007-03-20 17:41:10 · update #2
I know it's really hard to accept.. but he is just playing around with you. He doesn't want you.. but he doesn't want to see you moving on with your life either. If the guy really did want you, he would treat you like he couldn't bear to see you go. I think you are doing the right thing in creating the distance.. good for you.
2007-03-20 17:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by Breanne H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if i understand correctly... He broke up with you to go be with his ex girlfriend? If that is the case, then that is his bad completely. I would move on if i were you because men are opportunists and are slaves to our sex drives. It also depends on how much you have invested in a relationship with him. If you want him just for fun and you dont think your going to get attached to him go ahead, but walk quietly with a big stick. If you are going to fall in love with him again, dont do it because hes most likely going to hurt you again. You fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
2007-03-20 17:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is not sure as to what he want to do? give him some time.... after all you can't force him for anything. you just be supportive towards him during this passing phase. guys like their girls being supportive toward them when they are in a problems. good luck.
2007-03-20 17:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by spice* with ice** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋