Ok me and my bf have been dating for about 2 months now. And recently me, him and his mom and my parents all went out and had lunch together to get to know each other. My mom says he is on the road to marriage and freaking out that im getting this serious with him..i said its just lunch and thats all. His mom also i found out put us in a prayer book and said like she was happy that he found someone to make him happy and hoped that we would be happy and stuff like that. I know we are getting serious and stuff but im not ready for marriage..is he getting this serious?
2007-03-20 17:32:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive known him for a year and we have been official for 2 weeks
2007-03-20 17:37:27 · update #1
It sounds like the family are getting alittle too excited. Just meeting over lunch shouldn't cause such excitement. Talk with your guy to make sure you're both on the same page. Then each talk to your parents and get your message through clearly.
2007-03-20 17:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sheris_Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MUCH TOO SHORT! SLOW DOWN Neither of you can possibly really know each other. Two months is just barely getting to know someone. How is he in an emergency? Does he have moods, how long do they last? Wait awhile and find out these things, love does not conquer all. Good Luck
2007-03-20 17:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like, I don't know...like, why don't you, like, ask him? It doesn't take a genius to know that you should never get married after dating for only 2 months!!! You're mom is right to freak out if either one of you are that serious at such an early stage in your relationship.
2007-03-20 17:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think so...You have only known him for 2 months and that is way too early to say that marriage is in the works. Take everything with a pinch of salt.
2007-03-20 17:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you are not ready for marraige yet hun. if he really loves you he will wait til you are ready. i had a whirlwind marraige myself an i warn you now be sure it is what you truly want. i have regretted my marraige more often than not in the last 8 1/2 yrs. we knew each other from work and only for 4 mths before we got married. i was too hasty and now im payin for it cause i dont believe in divorce. dont get me wrong i do love my hubby but im just very unhappy alot of the time cause of a personality conflict. hes pessimist im optimist . we just dont see eye to eye on lots of things and its caused lots n lots of arguments. so just be sure what your heart tells you before you do something youll regret. hope this helps.
2007-03-20 18:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by war 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is alot of unknown factors that apply to your situation. How he was raised, how many women hes been with, dating experience, countless questionable unkowns. Id wait 6-9 months to a year even. The real person comes out in time.
But you knew that.
2007-03-20 17:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so, i think everyone else is just going over the top with it. has he said anything to you about marriage? if so and he wants to talk to him about it and tell him what you think if hes not ready that's good just take things at your speed and don't worry about mums and dads its your life not theirs. anyway if you wanted to get married tomorrow its up to you and they should be happy. thats just my thoughts on it. good luck hope things work out for the best.
ps i just read some of the other answers.....why is everyone telling you to slow down? its not you honey.
2007-03-20 17:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by ang r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having your parent's have lunch together is already sending everyone a message. that's something families do to get to know each other before a wedding. i think you should let him know how you are feeling before his family starts pushing him to pop the question.
2007-03-20 17:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so, marriage is probably the last thing on his mind. Men are dogs, trust me... make sure you get married when you want to and are not pressured into it.
2007-03-20 17:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by darkcloud5757 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down, if he gets serious just tell him you are not ready to give up your independence, you got your whole life ahead of you, and not to even think about it.
2007-03-20 17:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋