Please Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
Oky well this guy i think likes me, he is fighting with his gf and are on the verge of breaking up. He calls me, and we talk alomst everynight for a short period of time on the phone. He says tat he is bored and wanted to talk to me. Now his girlfriend thinks I like him which i do, and she is calling me name, and is doing somereally mean stuff to me when the people are not looking. I really actually like him. He think that she getting mad at me is stupid. but whatshould I do.
Move on?
Pursue Him?
ask him out?
Tell him to dump her and go out with me.
Should I tell him I sorta like him, and that if he doesn't that we should not talk anymore?
but them again I do not want ot lose our friendship
please answer soon but give good advice
give GOOD answers
SHE SAYS NEVER TO CALL HIM AGAIN BUT THAT WILL RUIN OUR FRIENDSHIP, AND OUR CANCE OF BEING TOGETHR AS A COUPLE, SHULD I TELL HIM WHAT SHE IS DOING?
2007-03-20 17:24:58 · 16 answers · asked by what do I do 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him what is goin on with his gf, what she is doin to u and that u are starting to have feelings for him so if he wants u then he needs to dump her first. tell him that u cant talk to him or anythin untill he is single
2007-03-20 17:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i just want to say the gf is being immature. Second, I would keep the friendship going, but not pursue him until the gf is completely out of the way because that can cause soo much drama. i also would probably not talk that much on the phone with him that much until she is out of the way. She seems like she still has feelings for him. So be careful, but follow your gut and your heart. And just remember that if she is going to make your life worse just for being this guy's friend then she isn't someone to lose your cool over. Good Luck. I am sorta having the same problem too. I hope it works out with you!
2007-03-21 00:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Acting and Dancing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would be a lot easier if your crushes girlfriend was a bit more mature. However, I would only pursue him if he or she decides to break up the relationship. If you break it up by asking him out while he is still involved, your relationship with him may not last for his ex sounds like she will make both of your lives a living you know what.
Just keep talking to him and be his friend right now.
2007-03-21 00:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would make him aware of what she is doing but at the same time don't stop being his friend. Do not try and come in between them or be the reason why they are fighting. If they are going to brake up it will eventually happen, just continue being there for him as a friend.
2007-03-21 00:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't tell he anything except tell him to her that right now we are just friends. By the way if you feel like you are doing somthing wrong you ARE. Talk to him about a relationship only after he is out of one. Other wise the same could happen to you. Also the situation is more complex than you are letting one.
2007-03-21 00:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by flydives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seams that she is very jealous and she probably still likes him. The best thing to do is to continue talking to him daily if he calls you, and if he really likes you more than the B***h he currently with, he will dump her and then you should start calling him and making him aware of the fact that you like him.
2007-03-21 00:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by xxxaccord 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sense you want someone to tell you to pursue him...please don't pursue him. Keep your confidence and self image in check by not pursuing someone that is already in a difficult relationship. What goes around comes around and it make happen to you with him someday.
2007-03-21 00:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by marji 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him were does he want this to go...and let him know u like him...its much better than livin a lie....pretenden you dont like him in front of her..so tell him and mabey he'll like you back...it wont hert to try...i was in the same perdicament about 6 yrs ago i realy loved this guy he was my best friend he had a girl and when i told him how i felt he said to me why didnt you tell me in the begining i would have left her and now there married and have a baby...it kills me i didnt tell him sooner..
2007-03-21 00:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by tiffanie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him even more... just cuz she's saying that doesn't mean you give up your love. if you really love/like him then don't give up and trust him and yourself...if she's calling you names that means she jelouse cuz she's afraid that they might break up. but don't ask him anything let him get to know u better and see wuts happens... good luck... hope he's all yours
2007-03-21 00:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by Cupckake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont tell him to dump her. Just continue talking to him naturally and let things take there course.
- Yadda i dig?
2007-03-21 00:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋