He's my friend, but I'm afraid he will never ask me out, and I don't want to lose this opportunity
2007-03-20 17:20:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going through the same situation right now so I can empathize with you. I am old fashioned and under most circumstances would prefer for the guy to do the asking. But depending on the guy some of them will not realize that you like them more as friends. If you feel you might lose him if you don't ask him, then by all means ask. Someone told me, "if he is truly your friend he will not quit being your friend just because you like him."
2007-03-20 17:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by broken_n_beautiful07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to just ask him out. Why don't you suggest casually that "we should go to a movie, would you like to go?" That will be much easier. If it works out then you "have a foot in the door". So give him the biggest smile of your life, listen to him, laugh at his jokes but not too much. At the end when he takes you home, say "I had a wonderful time, we should do this again". A peck on the cheek will be safe, may lead to something better later.
2007-03-21 00:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is never wrong to ask a guy out. Go for it! Most guys I know are happy to get asked out.
2007-03-21 00:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by geekgirl33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a girl asking out a guy, in fact a woman that knows what she wants is very sexy.
2007-03-21 00:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by tango6531 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't ask him out. Rather, I would communicate with him about how you feel about him, and then if he still doesn't get the hint...or ask you out first...THEN...ask him. I would be more patient...as a guy, I find it very hard to communicate to a girl how I really feel sometimes...so just be patient :). If it doesn't work...get over it quickly and move on quickly. Best of luck!
2007-03-21 00:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Joshua R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because most guys are afraid of rejection so if a girl asks them they become relieved.
2007-03-21 00:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your best frined then he will still be your your best friend after no matter what. Just ask him if he would ever want to go out with you, and you would like to. Then if you do, fuc*king galore, if you dont, friends with benefits will have to suffice
2007-03-21 00:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by Modus Operandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever set the rules?
I've asked many guys on dates. I've made lotsa first moves. They don't come if you just sit and wait, honey!
2007-03-21 00:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then take the chance
there's nothing wrong with a girl confident enough to make the first move
2007-03-21 00:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are allowed to ask guys out lol...
but if he isn't asking you there's only to possibility's
1: he doesn't like you like that.
2: he is shy....
Hope this helped.
2007-03-21 00:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋