My boyfriend was talking to me on the phone last night and then there was another call and said it was a girl we both know and hate and that a girl named brianna was at her house and she asked him if he was going out with me. he didn't say anything.she also keeps asking him out and flirting with him to make him like her and to make me jealous.my boyfriend once almost cheated on me with one of his x-girlfriends, so im starting to wonder if i should believe him when he told me NOT to think he will cheat on me with brianna. he said that he would quit talking to tem and tell them to leave him the hell alone.but SHOULD I BELIEVE HIM WEN HE SAYS HE WONT CHEAT ON ME WITH HER?
2007-03-20 17:19:55 · 16 answers · asked by M e g a n * 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"almost cheated" ??? no such thing!
ma'am? step away from the DOGG!!
move on!
2007-03-20 17:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by snapper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are about trust and if you trust him fully yes you should trust what he says. If he gives you a reason to not trust him because he did it then that is a different story. 90% of a relationship is communication and trust, trust him until he gives you a reason not to. Tell him if you catch him with anyone else that its over and you mean it. Love him and enjoy him and make sure you talk to one another about everything that is good. and question him about talking to these other people, why does he? Trust is the best thing you can do for your partner and if he breaks it, dump him and find someone who really cares for you. Take care Heather
2007-03-21 00:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give him a chance but be on your guard and look for signs he might be cheating.
If you like him enough for him to be your boyfriend you should trust him at least a little bit. He has given you some reason to distrust him, though, and you should make him earn your trust.
It's reasonably normal for young singles to flirt and to be the object of flirting. 80 percent of the time it's harmless. You should be on guard for the other 20 percent.
2007-03-21 00:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask you're self why would he want to be friends with someone you hate? if that's you're boyfriend and he loves you this girl brianna wouldn't even be anywhere in the picture. maybe he is cheating. if you have to think he's cheating most likely he is.
2007-03-21 00:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by twan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow girl i have the same problem.but i kinda fixed mine.really there isnt a way to see if he will be honest.but if he loves you and you love him have trust in him.if hes one of them boys who are like my boyfriend who i might break up with,the kinda boys that cant be trusted and flirt alot at school or mall,or movies and talk to girls alot then i wouldnt trust him oh so much.lol i would keep my eye on him and her as close as possible and let that girl know that u go out with him and for her to back off.
2007-03-21 00:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, do you know exactly what he's doing right now?
never trust anyone on things like that. just in a small corner in your head think, maybe. look for the signs:
hanging up with you cuz his mom "needs" to use the phone, mom needs "to talk to him," hangs up with more often, doens't answer offten when you call, comes up with excuses about not answer tha you know don't make sense. things like those. just watch for them
2007-03-21 00:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by Homer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you said he almost cheated before with his ex and so he may actually go through with it this time bit it also depends on how close he was to cheating so he may he may not just stay alert with the whole thing and decide what you think is best....
Good Luck!!!!
2007-03-21 00:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by juicyjunebug14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think given the chance he might. once a cheater always a cheater that the way it is . i wouldn't believe him .if he did it to me before i would believe he would do it a gain .do you think he change any. do you trust him? because if you don't that means what you are feeling is right. i would go with my hart . a women hart never lies.
2007-03-21 00:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by shyprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are a dime a dozen. Just see how he acts test him and use your womanly intiutions.
- Jhon m whats wrong with you?
Your not being realistic your being incessively negative.
biotch
2007-03-21 00:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is up to you... you have to listen to your heart if he looks like a jerk then he would be cheating on you...does he talk to you like a nice mature guy? if he's not nice and immature; boys never change unless there a miracle well hang out for a while and try not to kiss hug and c how he acts... if he acts weird then he's a player cuz most guys only want to be with their girls and kiss and stuff...if you knoe wut i mean
2007-03-21 00:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by Cupckake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no once a cheater always a cheater take it into your own hands if you are serious about him talk to her tell her which way is up and let her know that he is yours and you will do anything to keep him even mess her up
2007-03-21 00:24:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋