I'm the type of person that If I say I will call you, I do. And if not at that time then it will be around that time.. just to keep who ever it is in the loop... well my bf is nothing like that.. sometimes he is really good about calling me back or when he says he will.. but sometimes he is not at all! it is so annoying and it frustrates me.. like tonight he had class till 730 and was supposed to call me before he went to the gym because we were talking about hanging out.. well.. he never called and now its 913.. he said he'd be done around 930 but what the heck this is so irritating! how do i get him out of this habit?!
2007-03-20 17:14:37 · 7 answers · asked by BeachGrl1985 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u cant change a man and if u try u will only push him away. if u cant put up with his habit then u need to either end the relationship or just try to accept him the way he is
2007-03-20 17:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Onie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I was gonna post this questions a few weeks ago but decided not to.
What I believe you should do (and what I did) is talk to your boyfriend. Don't be afraid to do it. Tell him exactly how you feel. The results will surprise you. And if he doesn't change he isn't really worth it. I mean, be patient but don't be a martyr.
2007-03-21 01:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it can be irritating but it seems like he is taking you for granted. For example, he knows you will answer the phone even at 3am because he knows you will always "be there". Make yourself unavailable sometimes and see how he changes...
2007-03-21 00:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by stunston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't. It's a basic tenet of relationships that partners have things they want to change in their partners, and those changes are rare as hens' teeth. You either adapt or walk; those are your only options.
2007-03-21 00:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him about it.
but you can't change hard habits...
you'll just end up pushing him away
you'll just have to accept this part about him as much as it may bug you.
2007-03-21 00:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth, you really can't change a person. tell him how much it bothers you and tell him not to say things if he doesn't mean them. other than that, just wait and see.
2007-03-21 00:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by NLNLN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're hooked up wiht a liar there's not much you can do, except move on.
2007-03-21 00:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋