My hubby and I have a very open relationship.He tells me he really he likes to watch porn. ANd he has an uncle that constantly sends him internet porn that kind of urkes me. Should I make a big deal over this? Hubby also told me If he ever met a super hot Famous Person if he could have a Free Pass...?? And he already picked out miss USa!!! Is this a Guy thing? CAuse if i even have a weird thought about someone Ifreak and Feel super Guilty and want to cry!!
2007-03-20 17:04:56 · 3 answers · asked by gchic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him what his fantasies are then try to fulfill them. The more into his fantasies you are the less he will be looking at porn.
2007-03-20 21:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes porn he likes sex and fantasy and such...and likes being happy and feeling good.
You should not make a big deal out of this. The free pass thing is a guy thing. It's just a fantasy. It's not like he will ever meet miss USA(and even if he did she would not have sex with him). This was covered on a episode of Friends.....
Guys don't feel all that much guilt..
2007-03-24 05:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG he LOVES to look at porn? Well, honey, this means that he's a normal man. Men are just wired that way, to enjoy visual stimulation. They are so simple .. like plants. His fantasy is okay, as long as he's not overstepping any of YOUR boundaries and as long as it's not interfering with everyday life (work, maintaining the home, etc.). AND, I might add, that MY personal limitations for porn use by my boyfriend are that as long as I'm getting mine in bed, I don't care what else he does (as long as it's all by himself!). As far as the 'free pass' goes, I'd say let him have one. And let him know that you want one as well. It's only fair.
2007-03-24 17:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by PrettyCurlieQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋