my boyfriend and i are in the best relationship.he trusts me and i trust him..but sometimes i get mad if girls flirt with him or if i think he is flirting with girls.and i guess i love him so much i just want evry girl to back off and leave him alone but they wont.and i get jealouss.is it wrong of me to be mad if he flirts.like he will talk to other girls on the phone somtimes and push them in the hallway and stuff.please helppppp
2007-03-20 17:04:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people are naturally flirtatious, and as long as he is not crossing the line or doing anything in front of you that causes you hurt, I would be okay with it. You have a great relationship that is based on trust. It is okay to be jealous once in awhile...that is just a reminder of how you feel. As long as he isn't trying to instigate those feelings, let it be. You know where his heart belongs.
2007-03-20 17:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting mad is an emotion and is neither bad nor good. It is what you do because of it that can be bad or good. I wouldn't seek to prevent him from ever talking to another girl that is just empractical. What you should do in this situation is focas his attention on you more often. Sure he might look at other girls but it is you that his focase is on. If you feel he isn't focasing enough attention on you; demand it. Do this buy flirting back with him. Flirting doesn't end when you enter a relationship. Here read this.http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
2007-03-21 00:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by Michael M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's TOTALLY not wrong. You CAN be jealous. Just don't get mad. Jealousy is a sign that you really love him. But you need to consider the odds. Does he get jealous too, when someone approaches you or tries to flirt with you? Cos if he does then it's all good. If he just doesn't care (sorry to say this) but probably you guys need to do some serious talking about your feelings. Never keep your feelings to yourself but never blame him for all of it either.
2007-03-21 00:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should sit down and talk with him. Be honest. Tell him exactly how you feel. If you tell him this, it will make him feel better. Knowing his girl loves him this much that she gets jealous. If you reacts in a bad manner, than maybe you should think about what you want to do with your relationship. Don't back down because he might not like what you have to say, use it for a learning tool. Andrew
2007-03-21 00:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Hawk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are taking it the wrong way you should be glad. Think of it this way lets say you owned a Dodge Viper ok and people would stare at it would get pissed. NO. Just simle at those girls and let them know that he love you and that you have good taste in men.
2007-03-21 00:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by flydives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know how u feel about it and work something out between the two of u! But i don't see anything wrong wit it as long as he's not cheating! don't be jealous, don't worry! if he loves u then everything will be just fine, if he gets mad about it- he's simply not worth it!
2007-03-21 00:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes with you, he loves you, if you trust eachother truly then you shouldn't be jealous. People like to flirt, and interact with others, even when they ar dating, just because hes with you doesn't mean he has to be anti social, lighten up, dont worry so much until you know you need too. You flirt too dont you? its a natural thing, and most people dont even know they are doing it.
2007-03-21 00:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by Youll See 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think that it is fine for you to be upset. I am the same way with my boyfriend. You can also look at it this way would he get mad at you if you did the things that he does.
2007-03-21 00:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
a man has a god given right to attract and flirt with other females.
lions in the wild do the same thing and they have their pride and humans are no different. you should be happy you know him.
let him do his thing and shut up. only speak when spoken to.
2007-03-21 00:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong to get mad when you see your love one flirt with others, its normal when you care for somebody that much, but i think you should tell him that you are uncomfortable with it, let him know that you dont like what he is doing.
2007-03-21 00:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by tsinita_81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋