Lately ive found myself breaking out into tears at just the thought of the one I love. Were in a long distance relationship and we get along perfectly, but recently we havent been able to talk as much as we had been (used to be about 6 or 7 hours a day now its like 3 or 4). I miss him all the time and as of now theres no way for one of us to visit the other. I feel fine and am so happy when were talking but what can I do to feel better during the times we cant?
2007-03-20 16:59:20 · 8 answers · asked by Traffy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go and hangout with your friends, go to the movies, etc anything to keep your mind busy. I know it's hard to do but as long as you're busy with something then you won't think about him as often. And when he calls then get all excited.
MJ
2007-03-20 17:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. how about this? since you can't talk to him that much and you missed him a lot and still wanted him to know everything that you feel even though your not together, try using a tape recorder and record/say everything that you wanted to share with him every time you miss him.(like a recorded journal) I think that is pretty sweet. And then, if the tape is full, send it too him so he could listen and imagine everything that happened to you in that day or simply listen to it again and again because he misses you(and your voice) too but maybe for some reasons, he's tied up with work or something. Good luck and I hope you liked the idea ;p
2007-03-21 00:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by khatzzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, 6 or 7 is a lot. and 3 or 4 a day is still way better than my long-distance reealtionships! if u hav a lot of pics of the 2 of u, make a photo album while ur thinking of him but can't talk. personalize each page with like a saying that reminds u or a funny explaination of the pic. make copies as you go, so if he wants one, you can send him a matching set!
2007-03-21 00:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by Tawddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i know that one of my friends was in a long distance relationship for alittle over 2 years. it can work and i know its hard but think about how special it really is when you finally get to see him or talk to him. maybe you can make a college for him of you two. then you can "see" him and also give it to him so he knows you care about the two of you together. also, remember that you both need trust and communication as often and best as possible or it won't work.
well, i hope for your sake that this works out for you and that you have a happy time. good luck!! <3 =]
2007-03-21 00:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Frodo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain only me and mine arn't talking right now he has alot of things he needs to workout so be glad that you are talking to him at all I just got through cyring because of this ive been a wreck for 2 days and try to find things to get your mind off of him pray read go on pc watch tv whatever takes your mind off him and onto something else thats what I'm trying to do
2007-03-21 00:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by Leveler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start writing a journal whenever you're feeling sad, and let him read it whenever you guys see each other again. A friend of mine did that while her boyfriend was in the Marines and it helped her out a lot.
2007-03-21 00:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel lucky that you have someone who loves you. There are people like me who never get the luxury of someone who loves you dearly. Even though it may be difficult being away for while but just be glad that you have a lover and your not like me.
2007-03-21 00:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about him
2007-03-21 00:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by TG 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋