No, I don't have anorexia. That's just a song by Fiona Apple called 'Paper Bag', listen to it, it's great.
I said that on my question because I feel so empty inside, but at the same time I want to be empty because I don't want to go after the man I love.
And now I like this other boy, not as much as the one I love, of course, but he could help me forget. But I don't even want to flirt with him! isn't that weird?.
Why am I being like this?.
What can I do to have a little balance in my love life and so I don't starve from it?.
Thanks, oxox.
2007-03-20 16:57:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOVE that song. Try this other one, Sullen GIrl.
Awesome song.
Why don't you want to flirt with him? Maybe you should try to go after him, you never know what can happen. Maybe he'll make you feel whole again.
2007-03-20 16:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't weird, it's natural. When you love someone then you don't want, or need, to flirt with someone else. It's not a good idea to just move from one to the other to help you forget about the one before. You'll end up in a constant cycle of rebound relationships.
Spend some time with your friends and don't bother with guys for a while, would be the best advice I could give you. You don't NEED a man to survive, they just make things more fun sometimes. Let the love of your friends and family be enough to sustain you. You'll end up happier and healthier in the end.
2007-03-21 00:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel, i just broke it off with my bf and i couldn't bring myself to date anyone for a while else cause i was still attached to him! Don't use this other boy to help u forget, u don't love him and u would just be using him if u led him to believe that u did have feelings for him! U will eventually get over this other guy! But if u really think u love him then go for it and ask him out! i mean usually if u love someone (i mean real love) then they atleast like u back a little! Don't worry about it if it doesn't work out- life is easier w/out a man! i promise
2007-03-21 00:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still love him a lot and fell like the new guy can't compare and can't give you what he gave you. When we love we take the risk of getting hurt which happens when you loose that love. I am sorry and I hope everything gets better. You can get through it by believing that all the pieces will eventually fall in the right place. It's just that the fall is longer for some people. Hang in there.
2007-03-21 00:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's true we do not always end up with the person we wanted to be with. we end up with some one we did not want to be with at first we learn to love the person we did not want be with. with time we fall in love some times that what happens.you still wanna be with the one who does not want be with you. that's probably why you do not flirt with the other guy. you still have feels for the guy you were with be for this new guy came a long. you still love the guy.move on with your life do not wast your time bk.If he felt the same way about you he would came looking for you and wanting to get back with you.If it,s meant to be it will be.
2007-03-21 00:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Carebear22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww how sad...well...how are you gonna starve when you cant do anything about it...for my advice...forget about the one you love....let me ask you this.... did he hurt you...is that why you love him and feel so empty??...well whatever it is....you have something new and you need to think twice about it before it is too late...im sorry if im saying anything kind of bad....just tell me....well thats all im gonna say now...see ya
2007-03-21 00:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try eating a well balanced meal to help your thinking.
2007-03-21 00:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by Navulam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask the dude u think u love out
2007-03-21 00:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by TG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont always get the one we want other things come into play-but dont chase false dreams ine is one kidding oneself
2007-03-21 00:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋