Is someone apologizes to you, even though you were?

Question

wrong to this person. How would you feel. I left someone an apology I was involved with. He was very wrong and I found out alot about him that shocked me, lets just say he lied to me alot. I think mostly because he was ashamed. But when I found out, I lost it on him and he became cold and defensive. We hadn't spoken nicely in a few months and haven't talked at all in over a month. But I personally am ashamed of how I behaved, it was all emotional. But how would you feel if you got this apology.? WOuld you call me back? Ever?

Answer 1

Actually you do have something more to lose - your dignity and your self-worth. He 'may' or 'may not' appreciate the apology - and it doesn't matter. You did a fine thing in apologising and you really didn't need to since even a moron would realize that you were terribly upset.

He might come back crawling your way again some day, and he might not. Your job is to keep dignity - do not contact him, do not beg, do not repeat the apology. It is his job to humbly apologise and to make it up to you. If he doesn't then STAY AWAY. He is not good for you sweety. You've got more decency and more class than he does, and it sounds like a poor moral match anyway. You 'can' and you 'will' find a better man.

Answer 2

I think you did the right thing by apologizing because as the saying goes: "the blood is off of your hands" meaning that you are making peace on your end. I am sorry to hear what happened to you and I hope that you will bounce right back. But I think the only thing you can do is just let him be because you did what you felt you had to do and you should be okay with that and knowing that you were the bigger person. I hope all will be well with you!!

Answer 3

With me, I put everyone I was involved with in the past and keep it that way, because I only have the future to look forward to and everything in the past does not do me a lot of good. If someone wronged me, I don't talk with them again at all, because I hold deep grudges against those who cause me hurt like an ex.

With you, I suppose it would depend on the circumstances, so I can't really tell you anything that would really help but to decide for yourself, sorry. I don't know the story between you, nor do I want to know, so only you can make that call on if you should talk with him or not.

Answer 4

when are feelings get hurt by others inabilitly to be or behave in the way we would expect it would be understandable to feel the way you did.hes apologizing for maybe he is relizing what his behavior caused.sometimes it takes a long time for one to admit tey were wrong but eventually they do we can choose to except it however what we do with it after that it is purley each person own set of standards,

Answer 5

If you were really sorry you would let him go.
Let him heal on his own....

Personally I would think you were to shallow or you would think that I was some freak.....I would be forcing myself to forget you period ...I would be in pain right now and not even looking at my phone to call you.....how can I call you after what you said? There is a part of me that you hate .....how can you accept only a part of me...that's not living in the real....
I have to forget you and move on to someone you can appriacate me....but I have to up front with my past .....cause I know lying to you cost me a lot......

Answer 6

No, as I never look back after a relationship has ended.

Answer 7

I would just forget all about you and the incident and move on, no I would not call you

Answer 8

i would call u back, but i don't see why u would want to talk to someone who lied to u alot!

Answer 9

if you really feel bad about it then talk to him and try to find a solution.. you've got nothing to lose

Answer 10

yes