would you have sex?

Question

My boy friend and i get so close to haveing sex soo many times. but i dont know if we shoud even thou we both are 18
and we both feel the erge. Help?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

im kind of in the same situation as you except im a bit younger than you. my boyfriend and i come close to but i guess that we dont wanna rush things. it really doesnt matter how long youve been together. as long as you both feel comfortable with each other itll happen when it happens. you probably get nervous about talking to him about it too cuz thats what happens to me. my boyfriend and i havnt talked about it at all. but if you both are in love, you have nothing to worry about. just let happen what is going to happen. hope i helped! <3 good luck gurlie <3

Answer 2

I'm a guy, I just broke up with a chick, it was so horrible. Our relationship was basically sex and after it was over, at least I was dead. No matter how many times people tell you Sex is Wrong! and slap your wrist, you really wont take that to heart, but trust me. I started having sex way too early in the relationship and so our relationship was all about sex and I realized once i cleared my head from the break-up that the only reason why I liked her was for the sex. Now I'm not a bad guy, I was 18 and I thought I was madly in love, but once she got sick and the sex went away, I was upset more because i couldn't be close like that and our unfulfilled desire of sex kind of made us upset all the time and led to our break up

Answer 3

the way I see it is you are having doubts cause your asking for advice which can always be a good thing in this case so you won't end up feeling like you made a bad choice in life..Now my opinion is wait until your ready not when he's ready cause guys will always be ready make sure that that step is one your willing to make and that you know that this guys wants you for more than just sex..get to know each other before you lay up in the sheets with someone and I commend you for the strength that you've been able to have thus far it's not easy in the heat of the moment and when you are sure hunny make sure you protect yourself anything can happen in the world now adays and since your unsure of sex I doubt your ready for a child or even anything else that can be life altering/threatening as std's HIV or AIDS Becareful sit down and really think about what you want for yourself

Answer 4

I think you should wait until you feel the time is right. Don't do it just because you're curious--but wait until you know that you're in love and that this is something that you want.

For me, I've decided to wait until marriage. It's a personal choice for me--I am a major stressor and so for me it'd cause a lot of problems and I also took a vow to wait. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years now, and it is hard and it gets harder and harder. But there is no way that I regret my decision because it's right for me.

I'm sure you'll find the best choice for you. Just make sure you are 100% sure--this is something you won't ever forget :)

Answer 5

Please try to wait. I8 is still so very young. Of course, you have urges; they are only natural, but try to postpone until you are older and preferably, married. Avoid being together alone....in the dark. Stay in the company of friends where things to not progress and urges do not get out of control. If you're having doubts, the answer is clearly, "No." It's a big step and something you cannot undo once it's a done deal. You may, after all, be greatly disappointed. Something you should consider very thoughtfully and may I say, prayerfully.

Answer 6

Why in the feck are you asking strangers if you should have sex? I haven't seen any other answers but here is what will be there if you get enough responses; " No, you should wait until marriage, sex is a sacred union between married people " or "Hell yeah girlfriend get it on, if that's what you feel like doing." Or finally "If you really love each other you will know when the time is right." You're 18 for God's sake, make up your own feckin mind.

Answer 7

You should only have sex if you love each other, trust each other, and are protected and ready. Be sure you both want the same thing out of the relationship, and have the same goals in mind for where you want your relationship to go. Be open and honest and talk about it before. Dont just get caught up in the moment. That is when feelings get hurt and accidents happen.

Answer 8

you both shouldnt have sex until you guys truly love each other. you should both be committed to one another and discuss the possibility of pregnancy first. if you are sure that he will stay and support you if you do get pregnant then go ahead and have sex. but if you arent for sure he will be there then you should think twice about it. however, if you two do end up having sex without talking about pregnancy, just make sure you two are careful and use protection...

Answer 9

It's "urge" (not erge) and wait until you feel you are ready...there's no rush...are you on a reliable form of birth control? Do you have condoms ready as well? How would you deal with pregnancy if it occured, or an STD? These are things you need to think about and deal with before becoming sexually active.

Answer 10

In my opinion, there is lots of time for sex; and it's pretty normal to feel these "urges". There is a lot of things to consider if they apply to you in terms to making your decision such as religion, amount of time been together, how well you both get along, safety, etc....i always make a pro and con list to help me make decisions...you should try it...good luck