We where on a "break" and i said please just hold off on doing anything with someone else untill we figure things out, and we both agreed we would...
So in the meantime of figure things out we go back together, but i havent seen him yet.
The next day before i come over, he tells me on the phone and i quote "Cindy left a mark when she attacked me friday" (that day was monday)
and of couse i explode, i go over ready for a fight and he explains that they were flirting and she misunderstood something he said and gave him a hicky.
after a 4 hour talk, i feel like i can trust what he said.
Being furious about the situation i sent this b*tch who did it a message on facebook with words that you cant use on here and he called ME a *****!! and said she didnt deserve it!
Now im back in the situation as a few days ago and i dont know what to doo..
(sorry its long btw...) but any imput would help...
2007-03-20 16:06:14 · 5 answers · asked by Katy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to mention it was at a party i wasnt at, and everyone was drunk...
2007-03-20 16:07:06 · update #1
You need to move on, first off, there is no explanation for a hicky. He's saying she misunderstood something he said? That's one sorry excuse, he is lying. If this girl meant nothing to him, he would not have defended her when you sent her the message on facebook (which was trivial by the way). She means something to him. Leave him alone, if not, you'll be sad when he dumps you for her in the near future
2007-03-20 16:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, he mad at you because the women who have him a hickey, you get mad at so you yell at her then he turns around and defends her. That's nothing but weird.
You said that they were both drunk but the end situation is still the same. He took her side over yours. I know that they are times when I'm in the wrong but my husband never says that about me.
That hickey may be the "mark" that you need to be the ending point of your relationship. Find someone who will always be in your corner. Good Luck
2007-03-20 23:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ruthie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be so quick to accept the "i was drunk excuse" because that is so tired and played out now. Cindy left a mark on your man cause he let her do it. there could have been a misunderstanding between the two of them but how long did he let her leave her mark before he figured that out. then he defends her actions; calls you a ***** when he was the one who put himself in such a comprimising situation! this boy must be insane. i wouldnt say he cheated per say but he definitely crossed the line. now what you have to do is get yourself together mentally and let him know how its going down............just not with you! leave his butt.ive spelled out at least three reasons you should.
2007-03-20 23:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a 4 hour talk, i feel like i can trust what he said
no you cant. and whats with sending the girl a note *itching her out? your werent together. leave her alone. he had every right to tell you that she didnt deserve it. she didnt. you need to get away from him. your too angry for a relationship. every thing he does from now on you wont believe a word he says. forget using being drunk as an excuse, it doesnt work.
so grow up. dont blow your cool anymore. let him go. move on. leave the innocent ones alone.
2007-03-20 23:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave his a$$ behind and find yourself a real man.
It isn't as though she could fall over and accidently land on his neck(or wherever) and give him a hickey - it takes time too eventuate.
How long did he let a chick suck on his skin?
Why is he sticking up for her - you have a right to be upset? I am totally sure if it was the other way around he would be toally pi$$ed and probably want to kill the guy that did it to you
2007-03-20 23:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋